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New Jersey

r/NJ_Lifestyle

23,421 subscribers
This is NJ’s home for everything lifestyle related. It doesn’t matter if you are a swinger, stag, vixen, bull, cuck, hotwife or just interested to see what it’s about. Sit back, relax, and get kinky.

Moderators

Updated Dec 25, 2024
u/Swingswingswings Active
Added 2 years ago
u/SouthJerseyStagVixen Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 1 day ago
Also moderates: r/SummerBreakTeens
u/BotDefense Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 1 day ago
Also moderates: r/MilitaryMen, r/SexyTGirlOutfits, r/HighHeelTgirls, r/yaoigif, r/EroticWriting, and 1175 more...
u/SouthJerseyStag Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 1 day ago
u/Hairy_Constant_1909 Removed
Added 11 months ago • Removed 1 day ago
Also moderates: r/R4R_NJ
u/NJCoffeeGuy Removed
Added 11 months ago • Removed 1 day ago
u/downlowfuck Active
Added 5 months ago
Also moderates: r/NJr4r, r/PAhookups, r/nj4nj, r/smallasians, r/Longislandhookups, and 9 more...
u/purge-user Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/slutsofsnapchat, r/treesgonewild, r/GWCouples, r/gonewild, r/solesandholes, and 206 more...
u/auto-modmail Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/OhioHookups, r/dktestingbots123, r/Bulges, r/softies, r/Precum, and 100 more...
u/banhammerapp Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/MenGW, r/Precum, r/Bulges, r/ThickDick, r/conroehookup, and 146 more...

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

No posting from out of state.

If you post in multiple regions we will assume you are not from NJ

2

Title Must Show Location in NJ

All posts must include the New Jersey location of the poster in the title. This can be either a town or county. Do NOT use North, Central, or South. Third violation will result in user being banned.

3

No spam or subscription pimping

Do not promote your OnlyThots account or any other 3rd party $ubscrption service. This includes subscription info on your profile and premium Snapchat.

4

No hate/trolls

No phobic posts or comments will be tolerated. This not the place. This includes any threatening comments or attempts at trolling for attention.

5

Unregistered Provider

All p2p providers must get mod permission to post. Please message the mod team and offer discrete verification so that you may participate in the community without getting removed.

6

Low effort posts and comments

Posts with minimal information and/or no pic will be removed and ban issued upon 3rd offense.

Comments like "DM", "hmu", "I messaged you", and "DM me" will be removed and a 3 day ban issued for the 1st offense. Second offense will result in a permanent ban.

7

Don't feed the animals

Anyone feeding into an obvious OnlyThots bait post will be given a SIMP user flair.

8

Blocked a moderator

Blocking a moderator will earn you a permanent ban. No do overs.

9

No Lone Rangers

We get there are a lot of Bulls out there. The sub is turning into a sword fight. No lone rangers. Have a woman in the picture.

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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Firm_Steak_9234
10 hours ago
(MF4F) 23/21 ocean county. College couple Looking for someone to meet with us. Free over break and new years! No single males!
MF4F MF4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by eheat22
11 hours ago
31[MF4M][Jersey/ Philly] Couple pursuing First Cuckold/Hotwife lifestyle. Seeking Hung Bull
MF4M Cuckold 🧑‍🍼
in Jersey/ Philly
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Acceptable-Theory-98
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for [28/30] [MF4F/F] [Cherry hill] Couple looking for unicorn to have fun with image
[28/30] [MF4F/F] [Cherry hill] Couple looking for unicorn to have fun with
MF4F MF4F Unicorn 🦄
in Cherry Hill
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by No_Rope_4035
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for [53/31][MF4F] Bergen image
[53/31][MF4F] Bergen
MF4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Acceptable-Theory-98
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for [28/30] [MF4F/F] [Sicklerville,NJ] Couple looking for female to keep male company tonight while I’m away. image
[28/30] [MF4F/F] [Sicklerville,NJ] Couple looking for female to keep male company tonight while I’m away.
MF4F MF4F
in Sicklerville,NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Pretty_Locksmith_601
1 day ago
[26/28][MF4F] [NYC/NJ] arab couple looking for a female to play with us
MF4F Swinger 🍍🍍
in New York City
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by pplarecool123
2 days ago
[24/21] [mf4f] [Atlantic City]
MF4F
in Atlantic City, NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by jackandsallyNJ
3 days ago
Preview thumbnail for [36/36] [MF4MF/F/M] [Bergen County,NJ] married experienced couple looking for some holiday fun image
[36/36] [MF4MF/F/M] [Bergen County,NJ] married experienced couple looking for some holiday fun
MF4MF MF4F MF4M Swinger 🍍🍍
in Bergen County,NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by jackandsallyNJ
3 days ago
Preview thumbnail for [36/36] [MF4MF/F/M] [Bergen County,NJ] married experienced couple looking for some holiday fun image
[36/36] [MF4MF/F/M] [Bergen County,NJ] married experienced couple looking for some holiday fun
MF4MF MF4F MF4M Swinger 🍍🍍
in Bergen County,NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by ReusableLicks71
4 days ago
Preview thumbnail for [42/41] [MF4M] [MIDDLESEX COUNTY NEAR OUTERBRIDGE] 4 HANDED TANTRIC LINGAM CELEBRATION MASSAGE image
[42/41] [MF4M] [MIDDLESEX COUNTY NEAR OUTERBRIDGE] 4 HANDED TANTRIC LINGAM CELEBRATION MASSAGE
MF4M
in MIDDLESEX COUNTY NEAR OUTERBRIDGE
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by NJ_Couple_17
4 days ago
Preview thumbnail for [36/35] [MF4MF/M] [Ocean,NJ] Married, full swap couple looking for fun. Single males must have a BWC image
[36/35] [MF4MF/M] [Ocean,NJ] Married, full swap couple looking for fun. Single males must have a BWC
MF4MF MF4M Swinger 🍍🍍
in Ocean,NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by nj_newbecouple
4 days ago
[38/38][Mf4M][Elmwoodpark]
MF4M
in elmwoodpark
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by nj_newbecouple
4 days ago
Preview thumbnail for [38/38][Mf4M][Elmwoodpark] image
[38/38][Mf4M][Elmwoodpark]
MF4M
in elmwoodpark
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by nj_newbecouple
5 days ago
Preview thumbnail for [38/38][MF4M][NORTHJERSEY] image
[38/38][MF4M][NORTHJERSEY]
MF4M
in northJersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Murrywhiplash
6 days ago
Preview thumbnail for 39/36 [MF4F] CENTRAL looking for a female to join us for an on going thing image
39/36 [MF4F] CENTRAL looking for a female to join us for an on going thing
MF4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by nj_newbecouple
6 days ago
Preview thumbnail for [38/38][MF4M][NorthJersey] image
[38/38][MF4M][NorthJersey]
MF4M
in northJersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Amorous-Wolf420
6 days ago
34/31 [MF4F] Camden county
MF4F MF4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by ooofishooo
1 week ago
[25/24][MF4MF/F][Philly] looking for our first experience!
MF4MF MF4F Swinger 🍍🍍
in Philadelphia, PA
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Quirky-Bee-2733
1 week ago
Preview thumbnail for [23/22][MF4F/FM][Philly] open relationship looking fun image
[23/22][MF4F/FM][Philly] open relationship looking fun
MF4F MF4MF Swinger 🍍🍍
in Philadelphia, PA
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Fair-Outcome-3234
1 week ago
25 MF4M [VINELAND] Looking for 3rd
MF4M Hotwife 👰🏻‍♂️
in vineland
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by dieseldaddy57
1 week ago
Preview thumbnail for [35/38][MF4MF/F][NYC/NJ] Married couple looking to explore image
[35/38][MF4MF/F][NYC/NJ] Married couple looking to explore
MF4MF MF4F MF4F
in New York City
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Sharp_Positive9241
1 week ago
[48] [MF4M] [Bergen County] Married couple looking for a man interested in joining a couple
MF4M
in bergen county
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by basssnj
1 week ago
[50/53][mf4m/f][clayton nj] couple seeks clean respectful LOCAL BBC
MF4M MF4F
in clayton nj
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Unhappy-Tomatillo-94
1 week ago
Preview thumbnail for [M36/F33][MF4F][hoboken] looking for a female only to joins us this weekend or is karizma worth going image
[M36/F33][MF4F][hoboken] looking for a female only to joins us this weekend or is karizma worth going
MF4F
in Hoboken, NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by captain_blasto
1 week ago
Preview thumbnail for [37/31][MF4MF/F][Hazlet, NJ] Chubby couple looking like-minded couples or individuals for adult fun. image
[37/31][MF4MF/F][Hazlet, NJ] Chubby couple looking like-minded couples or individuals for adult fun.
MF4MF MF4F
in Hazlet, NJ