Updated specific locations to be searchable, take a look at Las Vegas as an example.
New Jersey
r/NJ_Lifestyle
21,443 subscribers
This is NJ’s home for everything lifestyle related. It doesn’t matter if you are a swinger, stag, vixen, bull, cuck, hotwife or just interested to see what it’s about. We all know that you play well with others so keep it that way in here as well. Sit back, relax, and get kinky.

NJ_Lifestyle Moderators

Last updated: 10/02/2024
• Swingswingswings added 1 year ago
• SouthJerseyStagVixen added 1 year ago (also mods r/SummerBreakTeens)
• BotDefense added 1 year ago (also mods r/MilitaryMen, r/SexyTGirlOutfits, r/HighHeelTgirls, r/yaoigif, r/EroticWriting, and 1163 more...)
• SouthJerseyStag added 10 months ago and removed 23 hours ago
• Hairy_Constant_1909 added 8 months ago (also mods r/R4R_NJ)
• NJCoffeeGuy added 8 months ago
• downlowfuck added 2 months ago (also mods r/NJr4r, r/PAhookups, r/nj4nj, r/smallasians, r/Longislandhookups, and 9 more...)

NJ_Lifestyle Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• No posting from out of state.

If you post in multiple regions we will assume you are not from NJ

• Title Must Show Location in NJ

All posts must include the New Jersey location of the poster in the title. This can be either a town or county. Do NOT use North, Central, or South. Third violation will result in user being banned.

• No spam or subscription pimping

Do not promote your OnlyThots account or any other 3rd party $ubscrption service. This includes subscription info on your profile and premium Snapchat.

• No hate/trolls

No phobic posts or comments will be tolerated. This not the place. This includes any threatening comments or attempts at trolling for attention.

• Unregistered Provider

All p2p providers must get mod permission to post. Please message the mod team and offer discrete verification so that you may participate in the community without getting removed.

• Low effort posts and comments

Posts with minimal information and/or no pic will be removed and ban issued upon 3rd offense.

Comments like "DM", "hmu", "I messaged you", and "DM me" will be removed and a 3 day ban issued for the 1st offense. Second offense will result in a permanent ban.

• Don't feed the animals

Anyone feeding into an obvious OnlyThots bait post will be given a SIMP user flair.

• Blocked a moderator

Blocking a moderator will earn you a permanent ban. No do overs.

• No Lone Rangers

We get there are a lot of Bulls out there. The sub is turning into a sword fight. No lone rangers. Have a woman in the picture.

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29M4F / FM Monmouth County looking for a woman / couple. Never been with a couple yet, always wanted to. Young, hung, and fun here!
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[20][M4FM][Cranford/Union County]Amateur hung college student with 8 inch girthy BWC for couples for threesome/cuck scenario
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[21] [M4F/MF] [NorthNJ] anyone want to meet up right now?
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[20][M4FM][Cranford/Union County]Amateur hung college student with 8 inch girthy BWC for couples for threesome/cuck scenario
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25 [M4F] Vineland - Looking to get completely drained 😌
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[25][M4MF][NYC] - Looking for couples to set up some meetups this week especially. Clean and verified
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17 hours ago
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18 hours ago
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[21] [M4F/MF] [NorthNJ] anyone looking to meet up?
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18 hours ago
M22 4 (fem M) (first timer) can’t host but willing for car or public sex
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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by tixtacs
21 hours ago
33 [M4F] Bergen county - love masturbating with strangers
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21 hours ago
19M4M Near Bridgewater Looking to suck and maybe get fucked
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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Call_me_Hammer069
22 hours ago
[33] [M4FM] [Newark]
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22 hours ago
50 M4F/Bi-couple# Morris County.
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