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New Jersey

r/NJ_Lifestyle

22,811 subscribers
This is NJ’s home for everything lifestyle related. It doesn’t matter if you are a swinger, stag, vixen, bull, cuck, hotwife or just interested to see what it’s about. Sit back, relax, and get kinky.

Moderators

Updated Nov 23, 2024
u/Swingswingswings Active
Added 2 years ago
u/SouthJerseyStagVixen Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 1 day ago
Also moderates: r/SummerBreakTeens
u/BotDefense Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 1 day ago
Also moderates: r/MilitaryMen, r/SexyTGirlOutfits, r/HighHeelTgirls, r/yaoigif, r/EroticWriting, and 1173 more...
u/SouthJerseyStag Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 1 day ago
u/Hairy_Constant_1909 Removed
Added 10 months ago • Removed 1 day ago
Also moderates: r/R4R_NJ
u/NJCoffeeGuy Removed
Added 10 months ago • Removed 1 day ago
u/downlowfuck Active
Added 4 months ago
Also moderates: r/NJr4r, r/PAhookups, r/nj4nj, r/smallasians, r/Longislandhookups, and 9 more...
u/purge-user Active
Added 1 week ago
Also moderates: r/slutsofsnapchat, r/treesgonewild, r/GWCouples, r/gonewild, r/solesandholes, and 191 more...
u/auto-modmail Active
Added 1 week ago
Also moderates: r/OhioHookups, r/dktestingbots123, r/Bulges, r/softies, r/Precum, and 99 more...
u/banhammerapp Active
Added 1 week ago
Also moderates: r/MenGW, r/Precum, r/Bulges, r/ThickDick, r/conroehookup, and 128 more...

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

No posting from out of state.

If you post in multiple regions we will assume you are not from NJ

2

Title Must Show Location in NJ

All posts must include the New Jersey location of the poster in the title. This can be either a town or county. Do NOT use North, Central, or South. Third violation will result in user being banned.

3

No spam or subscription pimping

Do not promote your OnlyThots account or any other 3rd party $ubscrption service. This includes subscription info on your profile and premium Snapchat.

4

No hate/trolls

No phobic posts or comments will be tolerated. This not the place. This includes any threatening comments or attempts at trolling for attention.

5

Unregistered Provider

All p2p providers must get mod permission to post. Please message the mod team and offer discrete verification so that you may participate in the community without getting removed.

6

Low effort posts and comments

Posts with minimal information and/or no pic will be removed and ban issued upon 3rd offense.

Comments like "DM", "hmu", "I messaged you", and "DM me" will be removed and a 3 day ban issued for the 1st offense. Second offense will result in a permanent ban.

7

Don't feed the animals

Anyone feeding into an obvious OnlyThots bait post will be given a SIMP user flair.

8

Blocked a moderator

Blocking a moderator will earn you a permanent ban. No do overs.

9

No Lone Rangers

We get there are a lot of Bulls out there. The sub is turning into a sword fight. No lone rangers. Have a woman in the picture.

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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Adventurous_Ad6233
37 minutes ago
19 m4a madison rn
M4A
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Super_Crow2909
5 hours ago
[25] [M4F] [Cherry Hill] Solo Latino looking for swinger/fwb
M4F
in Cherry Hill
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by KitchenCheff
6 hours ago
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[20] [M4MF] [NYC] 6'4 tall guy looking for females and hotwifes Send me a message if you are serious to meet
M4MF Bull 🐃
in New York City
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by feetrcool
11 hours ago
24 [M4A] Morris County Sissy CD for playtime tonight
M4A
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Awkward_School_3623
14 hours ago
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m4f/mf][woodbridge] looking for a wife or cuck couple to play
M4F M4MF
in Woodbridge
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Ok_Minute6139
16 hours ago
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39 M4MF/F anyone looking for tonight?
M4MF M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Tharkpan
18 hours ago
[29] [M4MF/F] [bergen county] Any couples on here want to be watched? Can give massages also! I can also film for couples.
M4MF M4F
in bergen county
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Spiritual-Anything26
18 hours ago
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M4fm
M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Thick_Jeweler_7351
18 hours ago
[m4f] 27 yr old in Jersey city, no looking to unload on my lunch break today!
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Graysweatssex
20 hours ago
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26 [M4MF/F] Essex County, can’t host
M4MF M4F Bull 🐃
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Imaginary_Target9645
21 hours ago
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[25][M4MF][North NJ] - Looking for a morning meetup today. Clean and tested
M4MF
in North NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by ElkDisastrous8003
1 day ago
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20M4F North Jersey
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by FarAttempt8995
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for 23 M4MF/F fun this weekend…😁 image
23 M4MF/F fun this weekend…😁
M4MF M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Designer_Window_8697
1 day ago
33 [m4mf] - Hudson County - Voyeur wanting to watch
M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by 8219onemic
1 day ago
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Analyzethis2003
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for 38 [M4FM/M4F] [NYC/NJ] - Let's have some fun image
38 [M4FM/M4F] [NYC/NJ] - Let's have some fun
M4MF M4M Bull 🐃
in New York City
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by No-Yogurtcloset-8887
1 day ago
19M M4M (Elizabeth) looking for bttm chubby guys little dicks to give a bj and have some more
M4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by PracticalDeparture48
1 day ago
M4M-Hosting for a little bit in helmetta
M4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by ObservantLemur0920
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for [24][South NJ] [M4F/MF/A] Hung Cut and Clean image
[24][South NJ] [M4F/MF/A] Hung Cut and Clean
M4F M4MF M4A Bull 🐃
in South NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by OkTry1679
1 day ago
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[20M] central nj [M4F] discreet HU…milf? 18+
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by ElkDisastrous8003
1 day ago
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20M4F Elizabeth
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Sweet-Cod-3360
1 day ago
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[21][M4F][NorthNJ] Only message to meet up now. FEMALES ONLY.
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by OkTry1679
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for [20M] central nj [M4F] STR8!!! anything discreet dm me image
[20M] central nj [M4F] STR8!!! anything discreet dm me
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Patient_Taro454
1 day ago
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26 M4MF/F/MMF
M4MF M4F M4MMF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by OkPrinciple3635
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for 24[M4couple] North west Jersey, looking for a couple that needs a 3rd😅😈 image
24[M4couple] North west Jersey, looking for a couple that needs a 3rd😅😈
M4MF Bull 🐃
in New Jersey