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New Jersey

r/NJ_Lifestyle

23,250 subscribers
This is NJ’s home for everything lifestyle related. It doesn’t matter if you are a swinger, stag, vixen, bull, cuck, hotwife or just interested to see what it’s about. Sit back, relax, and get kinky.

Moderators

Updated Dec 14, 2024
u/Swingswingswings Active
Added 2 years ago
u/SouthJerseyStagVixen Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 5 hours ago
Also moderates: r/SummerBreakTeens
u/BotDefense Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 5 hours ago
Also moderates: r/MilitaryMen, r/SexyTGirlOutfits, r/HighHeelTgirls, r/yaoigif, r/EroticWriting, and 1175 more...
u/SouthJerseyStag Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 5 hours ago
u/Hairy_Constant_1909 Removed
Added 10 months ago • Removed 5 hours ago
Also moderates: r/R4R_NJ
u/NJCoffeeGuy Removed
Added 10 months ago • Removed 5 hours ago
u/downlowfuck Active
Added 5 months ago
Also moderates: r/NJr4r, r/PAhookups, r/nj4nj, r/smallasians, r/Longislandhookups, and 9 more...
u/purge-user Active
Added 1 month ago
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Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/OhioHookups, r/dktestingbots123, r/Bulges, r/softies, r/Precum, and 99 more...
u/banhammerapp Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/MenGW, r/Precum, r/Bulges, r/ThickDick, r/conroehookup, and 137 more...

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

No posting from out of state.

If you post in multiple regions we will assume you are not from NJ

2

Title Must Show Location in NJ

All posts must include the New Jersey location of the poster in the title. This can be either a town or county. Do NOT use North, Central, or South. Third violation will result in user being banned.

3

No spam or subscription pimping

Do not promote your OnlyThots account or any other 3rd party $ubscrption service. This includes subscription info on your profile and premium Snapchat.

4

No hate/trolls

No phobic posts or comments will be tolerated. This not the place. This includes any threatening comments or attempts at trolling for attention.

5

Unregistered Provider

All p2p providers must get mod permission to post. Please message the mod team and offer discrete verification so that you may participate in the community without getting removed.

6

Low effort posts and comments

Posts with minimal information and/or no pic will be removed and ban issued upon 3rd offense.

Comments like "DM", "hmu", "I messaged you", and "DM me" will be removed and a 3 day ban issued for the 1st offense. Second offense will result in a permanent ban.

7

Don't feed the animals

Anyone feeding into an obvious OnlyThots bait post will be given a SIMP user flair.

8

Blocked a moderator

Blocking a moderator will earn you a permanent ban. No do overs.

9

No Lone Rangers

We get there are a lot of Bulls out there. The sub is turning into a sword fight. No lone rangers. Have a woman in the picture.

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1 day ago
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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Educational_Snow_432
1 day ago
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1 day ago
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2 days ago
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2 days ago
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2 days ago
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in New Jersey
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2 days ago
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