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New Jersey

r/NJ_Lifestyle

23,321 subscribers
This is NJ’s home for everything lifestyle related. It doesn’t matter if you are a swinger, stag, vixen, bull, cuck, hotwife or just interested to see what it’s about. Sit back, relax, and get kinky.

Moderators

Updated Dec 18, 2024
u/Swingswingswings Active
Added 2 years ago
u/SouthJerseyStagVixen Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 13 hours ago
Also moderates: r/SummerBreakTeens
u/BotDefense Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 13 hours ago
Also moderates: r/MilitaryMen, r/SexyTGirlOutfits, r/HighHeelTgirls, r/yaoigif, r/EroticWriting, and 1175 more...
u/SouthJerseyStag Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 13 hours ago
u/Hairy_Constant_1909 Removed
Added 11 months ago • Removed 13 hours ago
Also moderates: r/R4R_NJ
u/NJCoffeeGuy Removed
Added 11 months ago • Removed 13 hours ago
u/downlowfuck Active
Added 5 months ago
Also moderates: r/NJr4r, r/PAhookups, r/nj4nj, r/smallasians, r/Longislandhookups, and 9 more...
u/purge-user Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/slutsofsnapchat, r/treesgonewild, r/GWCouples, r/gonewild, r/solesandholes, and 203 more...
u/auto-modmail Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/OhioHookups, r/dktestingbots123, r/Bulges, r/softies, r/Precum, and 100 more...
u/banhammerapp Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/MenGW, r/Precum, r/Bulges, r/ThickDick, r/conroehookup, and 140 more...

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

No posting from out of state.

If you post in multiple regions we will assume you are not from NJ

2

Title Must Show Location in NJ

All posts must include the New Jersey location of the poster in the title. This can be either a town or county. Do NOT use North, Central, or South. Third violation will result in user being banned.

3

No spam or subscription pimping

Do not promote your OnlyThots account or any other 3rd party $ubscrption service. This includes subscription info on your profile and premium Snapchat.

4

No hate/trolls

No phobic posts or comments will be tolerated. This not the place. This includes any threatening comments or attempts at trolling for attention.

5

Unregistered Provider

All p2p providers must get mod permission to post. Please message the mod team and offer discrete verification so that you may participate in the community without getting removed.

6

Low effort posts and comments

Posts with minimal information and/or no pic will be removed and ban issued upon 3rd offense.

Comments like "DM", "hmu", "I messaged you", and "DM me" will be removed and a 3 day ban issued for the 1st offense. Second offense will result in a permanent ban.

7

Don't feed the animals

Anyone feeding into an obvious OnlyThots bait post will be given a SIMP user flair.

8

Blocked a moderator

Blocking a moderator will earn you a permanent ban. No do overs.

9

No Lone Rangers

We get there are a lot of Bulls out there. The sub is turning into a sword fight. No lone rangers. Have a woman in the picture.

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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Glass_Strain6309
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in Idaho
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by A1218
2 hours ago
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by gettinot
2 hours ago
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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Ill_Chemist_9018
4 hours ago
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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Rich-Recipe5040
5 hours ago
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Helpful_Hippo1103
6 hours ago
[38] [m4mf] [NJ/NY] NORMAL, clean cut, attractive, professional, funny, generou$ - COUPLES ONLY
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Inevitable_Army8619
8 hours ago
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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by OkTry1679
8 hours ago
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M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by l_morgan92
20 hours ago
32 M4F South Jersey
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by A1218
1 day ago
22 M4F - birthday head😅?
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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by DootDoot195
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Helpful_Hippo1103
1 day ago
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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by ReusableLicks71
1 day ago
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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Several-Eggplant5273
1 day ago
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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by bbcburner
1 day ago
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34 [m4f] #pomptonlakes looking for holiday season facesitting, possibly 69?
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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Njalhat2
1 day ago
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Dan_realname
1 day ago
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32 M4A looking for head HOSTING NOW - NEWARK ESSEX
M4A
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by mguz007
1 day ago
33 [M4F] #Monmouth - Any women want to edge a good looking guy?
M4F
in Monmouth County, NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Super_Crow2909
1 day ago
[25] [M4F] [Cherry Hill] Solo Latino looking for swinger/fwb
M4F
in Cherry Hill
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Fun-Chef4709
1 day ago
32 M4F/MF Hackensack.
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Analyzethis2003
2 days ago
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39 [M4FM] Central NJ
M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by dadickreaper
2 days ago
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by bbcburner
2 days ago
34 [M4MF] #northjersey looking to join couple
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by ObservantLemur0920
2 days ago
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[24][M4MF][South Jersey]
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Trek-Signature-3468
2 days ago
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