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This is NJ’s home for everything lifestyle related. It doesn’t matter if you are a swinger, stag, vixen, bull, cuck, hotwife or just interested to see what it’s about. Sit back, relax, and get kinky.
Moderators
Updated Nov 21, 2024
u/Swingswingswings
Active
Added 2 years ago
u/SouthJerseyStagVixen
Removed
Added 1 year ago
• Removed 18 hours ago
Also moderates: r/SummerBreakTeens
u/BotDefense
Removed
Added 1 year ago
• Removed 18 hours ago
Also moderates: r/MilitaryMen, r/SexyTGirlOutfits, r/HighHeelTgirls, r/yaoigif, r/EroticWriting, and 1173 more...
u/SouthJerseyStag
Removed
Added 1 year ago
• Removed 18 hours ago
u/Hairy_Constant_1909
Removed
Added 10 months ago
• Removed 18 hours ago
Also moderates: r/R4R_NJ
u/NJCoffeeGuy
Removed
Added 10 months ago
• Removed 18 hours ago
u/downlowfuck
Active
Added 4 months ago
u/purge-user
Active
Added 1 week ago
Also moderates: r/slutsofsnapchat, r/treesgonewild, r/GWCouples, r/gonewild, r/solesandholes, and 191 more...
u/auto-modmail
Active
Added 1 week ago
u/banhammerapp
Active
Added 1 week ago
Subreddit Rules
Updated Aug 20, 2024
1
No posting from out of state.
If you post in multiple regions we will assume you are not from NJ
2
Title Must Show Location in NJ
All posts must include the New Jersey location of the poster in the title. This can be either a town or county. Do NOT use North, Central, or South. Third violation will result in user being banned.
3
No spam or subscription pimping
Do not promote your OnlyThots account or any other 3rd party $ubscrption service. This includes subscription info on your profile and premium Snapchat.
4
No hate/trolls
No phobic posts or comments will be tolerated. This not the place. This includes any threatening comments or attempts at trolling for attention.
5
Unregistered Provider
All p2p providers must get mod permission to post. Please message the mod team and offer discrete verification so that you may participate in the community without getting removed.
6
Low effort posts and comments
Posts with minimal information and/or no pic will be removed and ban issued upon 3rd offense.
Comments like "DM", "hmu", "I messaged you", and "DM me" will be removed and a 3 day ban issued for the 1st offense. Second offense will result in a permanent ban.
7
Don't feed the animals
Anyone feeding into an obvious OnlyThots bait post will be given a SIMP user flair.
8
Blocked a moderator
Blocking a moderator will earn you a permanent ban. No do overs.
9
No Lone Rangers
We get there are a lot of Bulls out there. The sub is turning into a sword fight. No lone rangers. Have a woman in the picture.
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Yes
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18
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30%
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1 week
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Yes
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No
Total Karma
487
Link Karma
485
Comment Karma
2
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Account Strength
30%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
57
Link Karma
44
Comment Karma
13
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 5 days ago
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Master-Audience-7169
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
9 months
Verified Email
Yes
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No
Total Karma
37
Link Karma
36
Comment Karma
1
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 1 hour ago
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Patient_Taro454
Account Strength
30%
Account Age
6 days
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1
Link Karma
1
Comment Karma
n/a
Profile updated: 15 hours ago
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Patient_Taro454
Account Strength
30%
Account Age
6 days
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1
Link Karma
1
Comment Karma
n/a
Profile updated: 15 hours ago
10 hours ago
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Patient_Taro454
Account Strength
30%
Account Age
6 days
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1
Link Karma
1
Comment Karma
n/a
Profile updated: 15 hours ago
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40%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
60
Link Karma
31
Comment Karma
29
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
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10%
Account Age
11 months
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No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
2
Link Karma
2
Comment Karma
n/a
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 16 hours ago
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OrganizationFun2095
Account Strength
60%
Account Age
9 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
915
Link Karma
812
Comment Karma
103
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 22 hours ago
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Spirited-Painting867
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
175
Link Karma
175
Comment Karma
n/a
Profile updated: 5 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
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OkTry1679
Account Strength
30%
Account Age
2 weeks
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
10
Link Karma
6
Comment Karma
4
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 8 hours ago
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Sweet-Cod-3360
Account Strength
30%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
36
Link Karma
32
Comment Karma
4
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
15 hours ago
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Several-Eggplant5273
Account Strength
0%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
4
Link Karma
4
Comment Karma
n/a
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
16 hours ago
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Imaginary_Target9645
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
60
Link Karma
31
Comment Karma
29
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
18 hours ago
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Sappypapii
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
83
Link Karma
69
Comment Karma
14
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 14 hours ago
18 hours ago
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Sweet-Cod-3360
Account Strength
30%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
36
Link Karma
32
Comment Karma
4
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
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Best_Room2808
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n/a
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
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n/a
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n/a
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n/a
Profile update pending..
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OkTry1679
Account Strength
30%
Account Age
2 weeks
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
10
Link Karma
6
Comment Karma
4
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 8 hours ago
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Parking-Resort8592
Account Strength
30%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1
Link Karma
1
Comment Karma
n/a
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 5 days ago
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Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 week
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
6
Link Karma
1
Comment Karma
5
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 3 days ago
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Fun-Chef4709
Account Strength
30%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
13
Link Karma
4
Comment Karma
9
Profile updated: 5 days ago
Posts updated: 3 days ago
1 day ago
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Parking-Resort8592
Account Strength
30%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1
Link Karma
1
Comment Karma
n/a
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 5 days ago
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PracticalDeparture48
Account Strength
10%
Account Age
11 months
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
2
Link Karma
2
Comment Karma
n/a
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 16 hours ago
1 day ago
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Sweet-Cod-3360
Account Strength
30%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
36
Link Karma
32
Comment Karma
4
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago