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New Jersey

r/NJ_Lifestyle

23,349 subscribers
This is NJ’s home for everything lifestyle related. It doesn’t matter if you are a swinger, stag, vixen, bull, cuck, hotwife or just interested to see what it’s about. Sit back, relax, and get kinky.

Moderators

Updated Dec 20, 2024
u/Swingswingswings Active
Added 2 years ago
u/SouthJerseyStagVixen Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 22 hours ago
Also moderates: r/SummerBreakTeens
u/BotDefense Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 22 hours ago
Also moderates: r/MilitaryMen, r/SexyTGirlOutfits, r/HighHeelTgirls, r/yaoigif, r/EroticWriting, and 1175 more...
u/SouthJerseyStag Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 22 hours ago
u/Hairy_Constant_1909 Removed
Added 11 months ago • Removed 22 hours ago
Also moderates: r/R4R_NJ
u/NJCoffeeGuy Removed
Added 11 months ago • Removed 22 hours ago
u/downlowfuck Active
Added 5 months ago
Also moderates: r/NJr4r, r/PAhookups, r/nj4nj, r/smallasians, r/Longislandhookups, and 9 more...
u/purge-user Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/slutsofsnapchat, r/treesgonewild, r/GWCouples, r/gonewild, r/solesandholes, and 205 more...
u/auto-modmail Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/OhioHookups, r/dktestingbots123, r/Bulges, r/softies, r/Precum, and 100 more...
u/banhammerapp Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/MenGW, r/Precum, r/Bulges, r/ThickDick, r/conroehookup, and 142 more...

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

No posting from out of state.

If you post in multiple regions we will assume you are not from NJ

2

Title Must Show Location in NJ

All posts must include the New Jersey location of the poster in the title. This can be either a town or county. Do NOT use North, Central, or South. Third violation will result in user being banned.

3

No spam or subscription pimping

Do not promote your OnlyThots account or any other 3rd party $ubscrption service. This includes subscription info on your profile and premium Snapchat.

4

No hate/trolls

No phobic posts or comments will be tolerated. This not the place. This includes any threatening comments or attempts at trolling for attention.

5

Unregistered Provider

All p2p providers must get mod permission to post. Please message the mod team and offer discrete verification so that you may participate in the community without getting removed.

6

Low effort posts and comments

Posts with minimal information and/or no pic will be removed and ban issued upon 3rd offense.

Comments like "DM", "hmu", "I messaged you", and "DM me" will be removed and a 3 day ban issued for the 1st offense. Second offense will result in a permanent ban.

7

Don't feed the animals

Anyone feeding into an obvious OnlyThots bait post will be given a SIMP user flair.

8

Blocked a moderator

Blocking a moderator will earn you a permanent ban. No do overs.

9

No Lone Rangers

We get there are a lot of Bulls out there. The sub is turning into a sword fight. No lone rangers. Have a woman in the picture.

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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Awkward-Definition79
1 hour ago
[19] [m4a] [mercer county]
M4A
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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Awkward-Definition79
1 hour ago
19m M4A back in central jersey
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Western-Active4426
1 hour ago
23 m4f- central nj- anyone wants a creampie?
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Outrageous_Pair9246
1 hour ago
20 [M4F] #Jackson Nj looking to get into this lifestyle, or just fuck around. Message me and find out more:)
M4F
in Jackson, NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by halfbread-bbc
1 hour ago
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30m [north Jersey] [m4fm]
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in North Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Western-Active4426
4 hours ago
23-m4f- anyone looking to get fucked hard. Hmu
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Ok_Minute6139
4 hours ago
39 M4F Somerset Anyone local wanna ride my face?
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Outrageous_Pair9246
8 hours ago
20 [M4F] #Jackson looking to get out there and try this out. Discreet fun only
M4F
in Jackson, MI
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by rockplay222
10 hours ago
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M4MF/F
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by AaronD2608
13 hours ago
[27] [M4F/FM] [Bridgewater] Seeking NSA hookup with open minded women or couple
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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Mindless-Edge9102
15 hours ago
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Outrageous_Pair9246
22 hours ago
20 [M4F] #Jackson Looking to get out there and try this out. Looking for discrete fun ONLY
M4F
in Jackson, MI
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Ok_Minute6139
1 day ago
39 M4F somerset ISO a pillow princess for Saturday evening
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by A1218
1 day ago
23 M4F - looking for holiday fun..?
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by DootDoot195
1 day ago
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25 [M4F] Vineland - Looking for fun times and fun connections 😵‍💫
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Altruistic_Sense521
1 day ago
25[M4F] Central/North NJ - Ready to Ignite Your Desires?
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by A1218
1 day ago
23 M4F - looking for holiday fun..?
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by sbc3269
2 days ago
25 M4F Wanaque looking for a chastity keyholder/dom
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Fun-Chef4709
2 days ago
[32] [M4F/MF] [Hackensack]. Just finished my workout and looking for some company.
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in Hackensack
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by hafizAbdul
2 days ago
[28] [M4MF][Woodbridge] Looking for a playful pair
M4MF
in Woodbridge
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Common_denomitor
2 days ago
43 [m4mf/f/t] [middletown nj]
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in middletown nj
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by A1218
2 days ago
23 M4F - birthday head😅?
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by gettinot
2 days ago
M4M
M4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Rich-Recipe5040
2 days ago
26M4F looking for discreet fwb ocean county area !
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Helpful_Hippo1103
2 days ago
[38] [m4mf] [NJ/NY] NORMAL, clean cut, attractive, professional, funny, generou$ - COUPLES ONLY
M4MF
in New Jersey