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New Jersey

r/NJ_Lifestyle

23,412 subscribers
This is NJ’s home for everything lifestyle related. It doesn’t matter if you are a swinger, stag, vixen, bull, cuck, hotwife or just interested to see what it’s about. Sit back, relax, and get kinky.

Moderators

Updated Dec 24, 2024
u/Swingswingswings Active
Added 2 years ago
u/SouthJerseyStagVixen Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 16 hours ago
Also moderates: r/SummerBreakTeens
u/BotDefense Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 16 hours ago
Also moderates: r/MilitaryMen, r/SexyTGirlOutfits, r/HighHeelTgirls, r/yaoigif, r/EroticWriting, and 1175 more...
u/SouthJerseyStag Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 16 hours ago
u/Hairy_Constant_1909 Removed
Added 11 months ago • Removed 16 hours ago
Also moderates: r/R4R_NJ
u/NJCoffeeGuy Removed
Added 11 months ago • Removed 16 hours ago
u/downlowfuck Active
Added 5 months ago
Also moderates: r/NJr4r, r/PAhookups, r/nj4nj, r/smallasians, r/Longislandhookups, and 9 more...
u/purge-user Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/slutsofsnapchat, r/treesgonewild, r/GWCouples, r/gonewild, r/solesandholes, and 205 more...
u/auto-modmail Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/OhioHookups, r/dktestingbots123, r/Bulges, r/softies, r/Precum, and 100 more...
u/banhammerapp Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/MenGW, r/Precum, r/Bulges, r/ThickDick, r/conroehookup, and 142 more...

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

No posting from out of state.

If you post in multiple regions we will assume you are not from NJ

2

Title Must Show Location in NJ

All posts must include the New Jersey location of the poster in the title. This can be either a town or county. Do NOT use North, Central, or South. Third violation will result in user being banned.

3

No spam or subscription pimping

Do not promote your OnlyThots account or any other 3rd party $ubscrption service. This includes subscription info on your profile and premium Snapchat.

4

No hate/trolls

No phobic posts or comments will be tolerated. This not the place. This includes any threatening comments or attempts at trolling for attention.

5

Unregistered Provider

All p2p providers must get mod permission to post. Please message the mod team and offer discrete verification so that you may participate in the community without getting removed.

6

Low effort posts and comments

Posts with minimal information and/or no pic will be removed and ban issued upon 3rd offense.

Comments like "DM", "hmu", "I messaged you", and "DM me" will be removed and a 3 day ban issued for the 1st offense. Second offense will result in a permanent ban.

7

Don't feed the animals

Anyone feeding into an obvious OnlyThots bait post will be given a SIMP user flair.

8

Blocked a moderator

Blocking a moderator will earn you a permanent ban. No do overs.

9

No Lone Rangers

We get there are a lot of Bulls out there. The sub is turning into a sword fight. No lone rangers. Have a woman in the picture.

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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Inevitable_Use_6483
2 hours ago
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22M4MF clean attractive 3rd searching for likeminded hotwife /bi swinger couples for mfm/mmf fun (morris county) and surrounding
M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by LostSurfer86
4 hours ago
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37 M4F Mercer County- Holiday hookup
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Federal-Feature-8561
5 hours ago
[19] [M4F] [North NJ]
M4F
in North NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Analyzethis2003
8 hours ago
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39 [M4FM] Central NJ can travel and host
M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by younghungamateurbwc
8 hours ago
[20][m4fm][union county] amateur 8 inch BWC for couples
M4MF
in Union County
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Inevitable_Use_6483
11 hours ago
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22M4MF searching for bi couple for mfm/mmf fun
M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Tough_Surround1031
11 hours ago
[28m4mf/f/a] [Monmouth County]
M4MF M4F M4A
in Monmouth County, NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Fun-Chef4709
12 hours ago
32 M4F/MF Hackensack. Just finished a long work day and looking for some company.
M4F M4MF Bull 🐃
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Bubbly-Apricot-7487
12 hours ago
[35][m4f][jersey shore] hotel fun
M4F
in Jersey Shore
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Designer_Window_8697
16 hours ago
33 [m4mf] - Hudson County - Voyeur wanting to watch
M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Hour_Video6950
21 hours ago
20m4f/mf/a Ocean county hosting/travel looking to have a fun time this afternoon. Dm if interested
M4F M4MF M4A
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Helpful_Hippo1103
22 hours ago
[38] [m4mf] [NJ/NY] NORMAL, clean cut, attractive, professional, funny, generou$ - COUPLES ONLY
M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Ok_Minute6139
23 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 39 M4F somerset ISO a pillow princess tonight image
39 M4F somerset ISO a pillow princess tonight
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by YoBoogieWoogie
23 hours ago
19 M4F looking for someone older
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Hour_Video6950
23 hours ago
20m4f/mf/a cean county hosting/travel looking to have a fun time this afternoon. Dm if interested
M4F M4MF M4A
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by A1218
1 day ago
23 M4F - any married/taken women..?
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by joshdw123
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for 21 [M4F] #NorthernNJ Tall, Confident, and Experienced image
21 [M4F] #NorthernNJ Tall, Confident, and Experienced
M4F
in NorthernNJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Prestigious_Till_391
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for [49][m4f/mf] Looking for some holiday cheer image
[49][m4f/mf] Looking for some holiday cheer
M4F M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by YoBoogieWoogie
1 day ago
18 M4A looking for someone older
M4A
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by OrganizationFun2095
1 day ago
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45 M, free all day tomorrow [M4F/MF]
M4F M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Ready-Ad8621
1 day ago
26 [M4FM] #cherryhill nj guy 6’6” 7” thick BWC
M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Deep-Expression47
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for [20] [m4f] [ocean county]- message me image
[20] [m4f] [ocean county]- message me
M4F
in Ocean County
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Ok_Minute6139
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for 39 M4MF/F #Somerset ISO a couple or married women image
39 M4MF/F #Somerset ISO a couple or married women
M4MF M4F Hotwife 👰🏻‍♂️
in Somerset
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by DootDoot195
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for 25 [M4F] Vineland - Looking for fun times and fun connections 😌 image
25 [M4F] Vineland - Looking for fun times and fun connections 😌
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by themfeelsyo
2 days ago
32 [M4F] #Westchester
M4F Bull 🐃
in Westchester, NY