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New Jersey

r/NJ_Lifestyle

22,538 subscribers
This is NJ’s home for everything lifestyle related. It doesn’t matter if you are a swinger, stag, vixen, bull, cuck, hotwife or just interested to see what it’s about. Sit back, relax, and get kinky.

Moderators

Updated Nov 12, 2024
u/Swingswingswings Active
Added 2 years ago
u/SouthJerseyStagVixen Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 1 day ago
Also moderates: r/SummerBreakTeens
u/BotDefense Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 1 day ago
Also moderates: r/MilitaryMen, r/SexyTGirlOutfits, r/HighHeelTgirls, r/yaoigif, r/EroticWriting, and 1173 more...
u/SouthJerseyStag Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 1 day ago
u/Hairy_Constant_1909 Removed
Added 9 months ago • Removed 1 day ago
Also moderates: r/R4R_NJ
u/NJCoffeeGuy Removed
Added 9 months ago • Removed 1 day ago
u/downlowfuck Active
Added 4 months ago
Also moderates: r/NJr4r, r/PAhookups, r/nj4nj, r/smallasians, r/Longislandhookups, and 9 more...
u/purge-user Active
Added 3 days ago
Also moderates: r/slutsofsnapchat, r/treesgonewild, r/GWCouples, r/gonewild, r/solesandholes, and 191 more...
u/auto-modmail Active
Added 3 days ago
Also moderates: r/OhioHookups, r/dktestingbots123, r/Bulges, r/softies, r/Precum, and 98 more...
u/banhammerapp Active
Added 3 days ago
Also moderates: r/MenGW, r/Precum, r/Bulges, r/ThickDick, r/conroehookup, and 126 more...

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

No posting from out of state.

If you post in multiple regions we will assume you are not from NJ

2

Title Must Show Location in NJ

All posts must include the New Jersey location of the poster in the title. This can be either a town or county. Do NOT use North, Central, or South. Third violation will result in user being banned.

3

No spam or subscription pimping

Do not promote your OnlyThots account or any other 3rd party $ubscrption service. This includes subscription info on your profile and premium Snapchat.

4

No hate/trolls

No phobic posts or comments will be tolerated. This not the place. This includes any threatening comments or attempts at trolling for attention.

5

Unregistered Provider

All p2p providers must get mod permission to post. Please message the mod team and offer discrete verification so that you may participate in the community without getting removed.

6

Low effort posts and comments

Posts with minimal information and/or no pic will be removed and ban issued upon 3rd offense.

Comments like "DM", "hmu", "I messaged you", and "DM me" will be removed and a 3 day ban issued for the 1st offense. Second offense will result in a permanent ban.

7

Don't feed the animals

Anyone feeding into an obvious OnlyThots bait post will be given a SIMP user flair.

8

Blocked a moderator

Blocking a moderator will earn you a permanent ban. No do overs.

9

No Lone Rangers

We get there are a lot of Bulls out there. The sub is turning into a sword fight. No lone rangers. Have a woman in the picture.

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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Ready-Ad8621
1 hour ago
26 [M4FM] #cherryhill nj guy 6’6” 7” thick BWC
M4MF Bull 🐃
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by qwertysir94
3 hours ago
[30] M4F [Passaic County] for and hung looking for head
M4F
in Passaic County
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by KingCalitri
3 hours ago
[23/23] [M4F] [Newark] Looking to fuck someone’s wife or women in general
M4F
in Newark
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by MudEnvironmental8191
7 hours ago
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20 [M4M] Long branch
M4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Dan_realname
8 hours ago
32 M4F WHERE ARE THE WOMEN?? looking for a pillow princess to give her oral pleasure.. NEWARK ESSEX
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by gbaby4212
9 hours ago
(31) M4F in NJ looking for female especially older woman Bergen county and Somerset county areas
M4F
in Somerset, NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by VinylScratch34
9 hours ago
21 [M4MF] NNJ- Looking to join a couple and have some fun over winter break
M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by RangerNo1080
10 hours ago
Howdy 👋🏼 M30 (M4FM/F) (UNION COUNTY) in search of a BBW! Dm me
M4MF M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by qwertysir94
11 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 30M4F/FM Bergen county, fit and hung looking for fun, need some good head image
30M4F/FM Bergen county, fit and hung looking for fun, need some good head
M4F M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by shyduckyrevenge2
11 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for [39] [M4F] [FortLee] - I have a hotel room for Thursday afternoon, I'm looking for a bbw to worship. image
[39] [M4F] [FortLee] - I have a hotel room for Thursday afternoon, I'm looking for a bbw to worship.
M4F Bull 🐃
in fortlee
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by OrganizationFun2095
12 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 45 Monmouth County, looking for discreet fun [M4F/MF] image
45 Monmouth County, looking for discreet fun [M4F/MF]
M4F M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by DootDoot195
12 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 25 [M4F] Vineland - Looking to get completely drained 😌 image
25 [M4F] Vineland - Looking to get completely drained 😌
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by RangerNo1080
12 hours ago
M30 (M4F/MF) (UNION/MIDDLESEX COUNTY) READY TO SERVICE YOUR DESIRES.
M4F M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by zues_taylor88
13 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for [30][M4F/MF][Camden County] BBC looking for some weekend fun image
[30][M4F/MF][Camden County] BBC looking for some weekend fun
M4F M4MF Bull 🐃
in Camden County
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Latter_Device3918
15 hours ago
M4m right now Maplse shade
M4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Glittering_Ad_3963
15 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 22 m4f/aa Montclair looking for a fun time tn image
22 m4f/aa Montclair looking for a fun time tn
M4F M4AA Bull 🐃
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by DateInternational449
15 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 24m4f (Edison) cant host but can travel is close by image
24m4f (Edison) cant host but can travel is close by
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Glittering_Ad_3963
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for 22 m4aa Montclair looking to have a great night image
22 m4aa Montclair looking to have a great night
M4AA Bull 🐃
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by DootDoot195
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for 25 [M4F] Vineland - Looking to get completely drained 😌 image
25 [M4F] Vineland - Looking to get completely drained 😌
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by nycbull12345
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for [23] [M4MF] [NNJ] experienced 3rd looking for couples in area image
[23] [M4MF] [NNJ] experienced 3rd looking for couples in area
M4MF Bull 🐃
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Onin1teXd
1 day ago
18 [M4M] looking to suck some dick in Camden county blackwood
M4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Potential_Bike5242
1 day ago
M28 M4M need dad cock NNJ
M4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Friendly_Intern_5455
1 day ago
26M4F carplay?
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by OkTry1679
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for [20M] STR8!! [M4F] central nj…wanna fuck a mild for the first time dm me or any females down…carplay/meetup image
[20M] STR8!! [M4F] central nj…wanna fuck a mild for the first time dm me or any females down…carplay/meetup
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by gbaby4212
1 day ago
31 M4f here looking in somerset county near bedminster. Especially older woman.
M4F
in New Jersey