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r/NJ_Lifestyle

22,256 subscribers
This is NJ’s home for everything lifestyle related. It doesn’t matter if you are a swinger, stag, vixen, bull, cuck, hotwife or just interested to see what it’s about. We all know that you play well with others so keep it that way in here as well. Sit back, relax, and get kinky.

Moderators

Updated Nov 1, 2024
u/Swingswingswings Active
Added 2 years ago
u/SouthJerseyStagVixen Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 14 hours ago
Also moderates: r/SummerBreakTeens
u/BotDefense Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 14 hours ago
Also moderates: r/MilitaryMen, r/SexyTGirlOutfits, r/HighHeelTgirls, r/yaoigif, r/EroticWriting, and 1172 more...
u/SouthJerseyStag Removed
Added 11 months ago • Removed 14 hours ago
u/Hairy_Constant_1909 Removed
Added 9 months ago • Removed 14 hours ago
Also moderates: r/R4R_NJ
u/NJCoffeeGuy Removed
Added 9 months ago • Removed 14 hours ago
u/downlowfuck Active
Added 3 months ago
Also moderates: r/NJr4r, r/PAhookups, r/nj4nj, r/smallasians, r/Longislandhookups, and 9 more...

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

No posting from out of state.

If you post in multiple regions we will assume you are not from NJ

2

Title Must Show Location in NJ

All posts must include the New Jersey location of the poster in the title. This can be either a town or county. Do NOT use North, Central, or South. Third violation will result in user being banned.

3

No spam or subscription pimping

Do not promote your OnlyThots account or any other 3rd party $ubscrption service. This includes subscription info on your profile and premium Snapchat.

4

No hate/trolls

No phobic posts or comments will be tolerated. This not the place. This includes any threatening comments or attempts at trolling for attention.

5

Unregistered Provider

All p2p providers must get mod permission to post. Please message the mod team and offer discrete verification so that you may participate in the community without getting removed.

6

Low effort posts and comments

Posts with minimal information and/or no pic will be removed and ban issued upon 3rd offense.

Comments like "DM", "hmu", "I messaged you", and "DM me" will be removed and a 3 day ban issued for the 1st offense. Second offense will result in a permanent ban.

7

Don't feed the animals

Anyone feeding into an obvious OnlyThots bait post will be given a SIMP user flair.

8

Blocked a moderator

Blocking a moderator will earn you a permanent ban. No do overs.

9

No Lone Rangers

We get there are a lot of Bulls out there. The sub is turning into a sword fight. No lone rangers. Have a woman in the picture.

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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Fearless_Extension_8
41 minutes ago
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M4F/MF pm for details
M4F M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by penmanship2
41 minutes ago
38M4F - Swedesboro Discreet Sunday Fun Day!
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Deep-Expression47
59 minutes ago
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[20] [m4f] [ocean county]: can travel, dm if interested
M4F
in Ocean County
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by OppositePause1752
2 hours ago
[20][M4FM][UNION COUNTY]amateur hung college kid with girthy 8 inch BWC searching for old and young couples for cuck/MFM scenario
M4MF
in Union County
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by BugHot9275
2 hours ago
M4R (UNION COUNTY) TODAY
M4R
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by CubanSexy
2 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for M28 [M4F] [Newark] Cuban BBC image
M28 [M4F] [Newark] Cuban BBC
M4F
in Newark
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Sealore1
3 hours ago
23m4f/ts in NNJ and I can drive but can't host, open to most ideas
M4F M4TS
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by DootDoot195
3 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 25 [M4F] Vineland - Aching to get drained 😌 image
25 [M4F] Vineland - Aching to get drained 😌
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by gjake3549
3 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for [23] [M4FM] [Bridgewater] Friday Night Fun? image
[23] [M4FM] [Bridgewater] Friday Night Fun?
M4MF
in Bridgewater
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Loose_Celebration218
3 hours ago
22 [M4F] [Hudson County] - Trying to fail NNN with style 🍆💦
M4F Bull 🐃
in Hudson County
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Hour_Video6950
3 hours ago
20m4f/mf/a looking for some head possibly more this weekend, Ocean County hmu
M4F M4MF M4A
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Ok_Minute6139
4 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 39 [M4FM] [Bridgewater] looking for a couple for this evening image
39 [M4FM] [Bridgewater] looking for a couple for this evening
M4MF Hotwife 👰🏻‍♂️
in Bridgewater
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by PA-NJ-Redditor
4 hours ago
M4F Trenton- Mostly happy husband looking for mostly happy wife
M4F Bull 🐃
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by 8219onemic
5 hours ago
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M42 F43 11/1 Atlantic City
M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Throwmeaway067
5 hours ago
42 [M4F] Red Bank - Married for a FWB
M4F Bull 🐃
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Otherwise_Shock_3648
5 hours ago
20 bi m4a
M4A
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by HeavilySeasoned
5 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 19 M4F (Bergen County) image
19 M4F (Bergen County)
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by OppositePause1752
6 hours ago
[20][M4FM][UNION COUNTY]amateur hung college kid with girthy 8 inch BWC searching for old and young couples for cuck/MFM scenario
M4MF
in Union County
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Mysterious-Tea-6306
7 hours ago
21M4A Bi new to being a bttm can you teach me
M4A
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Aromatic_File2303
7 hours ago
24m4F CNJ [Colts Neck]
M4F
in Colts Neck
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by AcrobaticFootball390
9 hours ago
43 [M4F] #CNJ M4FM OR MF4F. Dom with a Daddy side is hosting to soil and spoil. 420+
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by AcrobaticFootball390
9 hours ago
43 [M4F] #CNJ M4FM OR MF4F. Dom with a Daddy side is hosting to soil and spoil. 420+
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by AcrobaticFootball390
10 hours ago
43 [M4F] #CNJ M4FM OR MF4F. Dom with a Daddy side is hosting to soil and spoil. 420+
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by TooTheMoon1441
11 hours ago
[M4F/MF] experienced BWC Central Jersey
M4F M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by TooTheMoon1441
11 hours ago
[M4F/MF] experienced BWC Central Jersey
M4F M4MF
in New Jersey