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New Jersey

r/NJ_Lifestyle

22,593 subscribers
This is NJ’s home for everything lifestyle related. It doesn’t matter if you are a swinger, stag, vixen, bull, cuck, hotwife or just interested to see what it’s about. Sit back, relax, and get kinky.

Moderators

Updated Nov 14, 2024
u/Swingswingswings Active
Added 2 years ago
u/SouthJerseyStagVixen Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 1 day ago
Also moderates: r/SummerBreakTeens
u/BotDefense Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 1 day ago
Also moderates: r/MilitaryMen, r/SexyTGirlOutfits, r/HighHeelTgirls, r/yaoigif, r/EroticWriting, and 1173 more...
u/SouthJerseyStag Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 1 day ago
u/Hairy_Constant_1909 Removed
Added 9 months ago • Removed 1 day ago
Also moderates: r/R4R_NJ
u/NJCoffeeGuy Removed
Added 9 months ago • Removed 1 day ago
u/downlowfuck Active
Added 4 months ago
Also moderates: r/NJr4r, r/PAhookups, r/nj4nj, r/smallasians, r/Longislandhookups, and 9 more...
u/purge-user Active
Added 5 days ago
Also moderates: r/slutsofsnapchat, r/treesgonewild, r/GWCouples, r/gonewild, r/solesandholes, and 191 more...
u/auto-modmail Active
Added 5 days ago
Also moderates: r/OhioHookups, r/dktestingbots123, r/Bulges, r/softies, r/Precum, and 98 more...
u/banhammerapp Active
Added 5 days ago
Also moderates: r/MenGW, r/Precum, r/Bulges, r/ThickDick, r/conroehookup, and 127 more...

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

No posting from out of state.

If you post in multiple regions we will assume you are not from NJ

2

Title Must Show Location in NJ

All posts must include the New Jersey location of the poster in the title. This can be either a town or county. Do NOT use North, Central, or South. Third violation will result in user being banned.

3

No spam or subscription pimping

Do not promote your OnlyThots account or any other 3rd party $ubscrption service. This includes subscription info on your profile and premium Snapchat.

4

No hate/trolls

No phobic posts or comments will be tolerated. This not the place. This includes any threatening comments or attempts at trolling for attention.

5

Unregistered Provider

All p2p providers must get mod permission to post. Please message the mod team and offer discrete verification so that you may participate in the community without getting removed.

6

Low effort posts and comments

Posts with minimal information and/or no pic will be removed and ban issued upon 3rd offense.

Comments like "DM", "hmu", "I messaged you", and "DM me" will be removed and a 3 day ban issued for the 1st offense. Second offense will result in a permanent ban.

7

Don't feed the animals

Anyone feeding into an obvious OnlyThots bait post will be given a SIMP user flair.

8

Blocked a moderator

Blocking a moderator will earn you a permanent ban. No do overs.

9

No Lone Rangers

We get there are a lot of Bulls out there. The sub is turning into a sword fight. No lone rangers. Have a woman in the picture.

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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Sweet-Cod-3360
5 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for [21][M4F][NorthArlington] looking for females 30+ image
[21][M4F][NorthArlington] looking for females 30+
M4F
in NorthArlington
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Pdadnjx
5 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for [49][m4f/mf/m] [Morris] Hot older for younger -weekend fun image
[49][m4f/mf/m] [Morris] Hot older for younger -weekend fun
M4F M4MF M4M
in Morris
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by OrganizationFun2095
6 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 45 [M4F/MF] [Monmouth County] image
45 [M4F/MF] [Monmouth County]
M4F M4MF
in Monmouth County, NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by shyduckyrevenge2
6 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for [39] [M4F] [FortLee] - Where are all the hot wives? Santa is looking for another naughty elf! #bbws encouraged image
[39] [M4F] [FortLee] - Where are all the hot wives? Santa is looking for another naughty elf! #bbws encouraged
M4F
in fortlee
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Tubamaster21474
10 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 32 [M4A] Mahwah Nj image
32 [M4A] Mahwah Nj
M4A
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by funnychat736
12 hours ago
33M4F/TF any married women interested?
M4F M4TF Bull 🐃
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by sexual_devianceNJ
12 hours ago
39m #SNJ - M4F Fuck Buddy
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by RangerNo1080
12 hours ago
M30 (M4FM/F)(UNION COUNTY) looking for today dm me asap BBW’s to the front.
M4MF M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by OrganizationFun2095
21 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 45 [M4F/MF] [Monmouth County] image
45 [M4F/MF] [Monmouth County]
M4F M4MF
in Monmouth County, NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Analyzethis2003
22 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 38 M4FM NJ Let's have some fun image
38 M4FM NJ Let's have some fun
M4MF Bull 🐃
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by RangerNo1080
1 day ago
M30 (M4FM/F) (NNJ/CNJ) SLIDE IN MY DM’S ILL MAKE SURE TO HAVE HER LIKE A SLIPPING SLIDE.
M4MF M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by DootDoot195
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for 25 [M4F] Vineland - Looking to get completely drained 😌 image
25 [M4F] Vineland - Looking to get completely drained 😌
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by PuzzleheadedBig7388
1 day ago
M30/ m4a / Trenton
M4A
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by OrganizationFun2095
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for 45 Monmouth County looking for discreet fun with like-minded Women and couples [M4F/MF] image
45 Monmouth County looking for discreet fun with like-minded Women and couples [M4F/MF]
M4F M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Spirited-Painting867
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for 20 [M4F/MF] [Piscataway] College Student Looking for women/couples image
20 [M4F/MF] [Piscataway] College Student Looking for women/couples
M4F M4MF
in Piscataway
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Ready-Ad8621
1 day ago
26 [M4FM] #cherryhill nj guy 6’6” 7” thick BWC
M4MF Bull 🐃
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by qwertysir94
2 days ago
[30] M4F [Passaic County] for and hung looking for head
M4F
in Passaic County
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by KingCalitri
2 days ago
[23/23] [M4F] [Newark] Looking to fuck someone’s wife or women in general
M4F
in Newark
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by MudEnvironmental8191
2 days ago
Preview thumbnail for 20 [M4M] Long branch image
20 [M4M] Long branch
M4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Dan_realname
2 days ago
32 M4F WHERE ARE THE WOMEN?? looking for a pillow princess to give her oral pleasure.. NEWARK ESSEX
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by gbaby4212
2 days ago
(31) M4F in NJ looking for female especially older woman Bergen county and Somerset county areas
M4F
in Somerset, NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by VinylScratch34
2 days ago
21 [M4MF] NNJ- Looking to join a couple and have some fun over winter break
M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by RangerNo1080
2 days ago
Howdy 👋🏼 M30 (M4FM/F) (UNION COUNTY) in search of a BBW! Dm me
M4MF M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by qwertysir94
2 days ago
Preview thumbnail for 30M4F/FM Bergen county, fit and hung looking for fun, need some good head image
30M4F/FM Bergen county, fit and hung looking for fun, need some good head
M4F M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by shyduckyrevenge2
2 days ago
Preview thumbnail for [39] [M4F] [FortLee] - I have a hotel room for Thursday afternoon, I'm looking for a bbw to worship. image
[39] [M4F] [FortLee] - I have a hotel room for Thursday afternoon, I'm looking for a bbw to worship.
M4F Bull 🐃
in fortlee