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New Jersey

r/NJ_Lifestyle

22,694 subscribers
This is NJ’s home for everything lifestyle related. It doesn’t matter if you are a swinger, stag, vixen, bull, cuck, hotwife or just interested to see what it’s about. Sit back, relax, and get kinky.

Moderators

Updated Nov 18, 2024
u/Swingswingswings Active
Added 2 years ago
u/SouthJerseyStagVixen Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 21 hours ago
Also moderates: r/SummerBreakTeens
u/BotDefense Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 21 hours ago
Also moderates: r/MilitaryMen, r/SexyTGirlOutfits, r/HighHeelTgirls, r/yaoigif, r/EroticWriting, and 1173 more...
u/SouthJerseyStag Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 21 hours ago
u/Hairy_Constant_1909 Removed
Added 10 months ago • Removed 21 hours ago
Also moderates: r/R4R_NJ
u/NJCoffeeGuy Removed
Added 10 months ago • Removed 21 hours ago
u/downlowfuck Active
Added 4 months ago
Also moderates: r/NJr4r, r/PAhookups, r/nj4nj, r/smallasians, r/Longislandhookups, and 9 more...
u/purge-user Active
Added 1 week ago
Also moderates: r/slutsofsnapchat, r/treesgonewild, r/GWCouples, r/gonewild, r/solesandholes, and 191 more...
u/auto-modmail Active
Added 1 week ago
Also moderates: r/OhioHookups, r/dktestingbots123, r/Bulges, r/softies, r/Precum, and 98 more...
u/banhammerapp Active
Added 1 week ago
Also moderates: r/MenGW, r/Precum, r/Bulges, r/ThickDick, r/conroehookup, and 127 more...

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

No posting from out of state.

If you post in multiple regions we will assume you are not from NJ

2

Title Must Show Location in NJ

All posts must include the New Jersey location of the poster in the title. This can be either a town or county. Do NOT use North, Central, or South. Third violation will result in user being banned.

3

No spam or subscription pimping

Do not promote your OnlyThots account or any other 3rd party $ubscrption service. This includes subscription info on your profile and premium Snapchat.

4

No hate/trolls

No phobic posts or comments will be tolerated. This not the place. This includes any threatening comments or attempts at trolling for attention.

5

Unregistered Provider

All p2p providers must get mod permission to post. Please message the mod team and offer discrete verification so that you may participate in the community without getting removed.

6

Low effort posts and comments

Posts with minimal information and/or no pic will be removed and ban issued upon 3rd offense.

Comments like "DM", "hmu", "I messaged you", and "DM me" will be removed and a 3 day ban issued for the 1st offense. Second offense will result in a permanent ban.

7

Don't feed the animals

Anyone feeding into an obvious OnlyThots bait post will be given a SIMP user flair.

8

Blocked a moderator

Blocking a moderator will earn you a permanent ban. No do overs.

9

No Lone Rangers

We get there are a lot of Bulls out there. The sub is turning into a sword fight. No lone rangers. Have a woman in the picture.

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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Resident_Guidance_12
11 minutes ago
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M4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by dizzydoodoo
11 minutes ago
M4F MF
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by dizzydoodoo
11 minutes ago
M4F MF
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by DifferentAdvice6653
29 minutes ago
M4F/FTM looking for a pillow princess or someone that enjoys a good oral experience. Bergen county here.
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Onin1teXd
1 hour ago
18 [M4M] looking to suck some dick in Camden county blackwood 18-21 please
M4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Sweet-Cod-3360
2 hours ago
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[21][M4F][NorthArlington] looking to meet up now
M4F
in NorthArlington
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by RealisticLynx3670
3 hours ago
26 m4a looking for after work
M4A
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by DootDoot195
6 hours ago
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25 [M4F] Vineland - Looking for fun times and fun connections 😌
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Sweet-Cod-3360
7 hours ago
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[21][M4F][NorthArlington] looking to meet up now
M4F
in NorthArlington
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by OkTry1679
7 hours ago
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[20M] central nj [M4F] STR8!
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Imaginary_Target9645
9 hours ago
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[25][M4MF][North Jersey] - Looking for couples in need of a third. Experienced and recently tested. NO SINGLE MEN
M4MF
in North Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Madetopleasexx
9 hours ago
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28 [M4FM] 9” BBC bergen county 4 freaky couples and singles, experienced.
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Diegoz32
16 hours ago
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30m m4f
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Sweet-Cod-3360
16 hours ago
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[21][M4F][NorthArlington] seeking to meet up tonight females only
M4F
in NorthArlington
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by qwertysir94
18 hours ago
30 [M4F/FM] [Totowa] fit and hung and horny
M4F M4MF
in Totowa
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Imaginary_Target9645
18 hours ago
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[25][M4MF][North Jersey] - Looking for couples in need of a third. Experienced and recently tested. NO SINGLE MEN
M4MF
in North Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by PuzzleheadedCry4033
19 hours ago
[21M][M4MF/F] [Atlantic county] looking for a good night
M4MF M4F
in atlantic county
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Anxious-Arm-8453
19 hours ago
M4F/MF 25 Gloucester County
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by idkwtfdude9
21 hours ago
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Who needs some thick cock? 39 m4f Hudson county
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Imaginary_Target9645
23 hours ago
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[25][M4MF][North Jersey] - Looking for couples in need of a experienced third
M4MF
in North Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by silkyboxers1
1 day ago
M4F M4M massage
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by race_freak66
1 day ago
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33 m4f #wildwood i want us both to cum multiple times
M4F
in wildwood
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Spirited-Painting867
1 day ago
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20 [M4F/MF] [Piscataway] College Student Looking for women/couples
M4F M4MF
in Piscataway
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Analyzethis2003
1 day ago
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38 [M4FM] NJ If you're looking for a great 3rd sensual experience BBC
M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by SteaIth-Gunner
1 day ago
23 [M4F] looking for a fine lady to hook up with
M4F
in New Jersey