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New Jersey

r/NJ_Lifestyle

22,825 subscribers
This is NJ’s home for everything lifestyle related. It doesn’t matter if you are a swinger, stag, vixen, bull, cuck, hotwife or just interested to see what it’s about. Sit back, relax, and get kinky.

Moderators

Updated Nov 25, 2024
u/Swingswingswings Active
Added 2 years ago
u/SouthJerseyStagVixen Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 2 hours ago
Also moderates: r/SummerBreakTeens
u/BotDefense Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 2 hours ago
Also moderates: r/MilitaryMen, r/SexyTGirlOutfits, r/HighHeelTgirls, r/yaoigif, r/EroticWriting, and 1173 more...
u/SouthJerseyStag Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 2 hours ago
u/Hairy_Constant_1909 Removed
Added 10 months ago • Removed 2 hours ago
Also moderates: r/R4R_NJ
u/NJCoffeeGuy Removed
Added 10 months ago • Removed 2 hours ago
u/downlowfuck Active
Added 4 months ago
Also moderates: r/NJr4r, r/PAhookups, r/nj4nj, r/smallasians, r/Longislandhookups, and 9 more...
u/purge-user Active
Added 2 weeks ago
Also moderates: r/slutsofsnapchat, r/treesgonewild, r/GWCouples, r/gonewild, r/solesandholes, and 191 more...
u/auto-modmail Active
Added 2 weeks ago
Also moderates: r/OhioHookups, r/dktestingbots123, r/Bulges, r/softies, r/Precum, and 99 more...
u/banhammerapp Active
Added 2 weeks ago
Also moderates: r/MenGW, r/Precum, r/Bulges, r/ThickDick, r/conroehookup, and 128 more...

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

No posting from out of state.

If you post in multiple regions we will assume you are not from NJ

2

Title Must Show Location in NJ

All posts must include the New Jersey location of the poster in the title. This can be either a town or county. Do NOT use North, Central, or South. Third violation will result in user being banned.

3

No spam or subscription pimping

Do not promote your OnlyThots account or any other 3rd party $ubscrption service. This includes subscription info on your profile and premium Snapchat.

4

No hate/trolls

No phobic posts or comments will be tolerated. This not the place. This includes any threatening comments or attempts at trolling for attention.

5

Unregistered Provider

All p2p providers must get mod permission to post. Please message the mod team and offer discrete verification so that you may participate in the community without getting removed.

6

Low effort posts and comments

Posts with minimal information and/or no pic will be removed and ban issued upon 3rd offense.

Comments like "DM", "hmu", "I messaged you", and "DM me" will be removed and a 3 day ban issued for the 1st offense. Second offense will result in a permanent ban.

7

Don't feed the animals

Anyone feeding into an obvious OnlyThots bait post will be given a SIMP user flair.

8

Blocked a moderator

Blocking a moderator will earn you a permanent ban. No do overs.

9

No Lone Rangers

We get there are a lot of Bulls out there. The sub is turning into a sword fight. No lone rangers. Have a woman in the picture.

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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by OkTry1679
40 minutes ago
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[20M] central nj [M4F] STR8!!! dm me
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by JohnnVeer221
2 hours ago
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[28] [M4F/MF] Hung BBC NJ
M4F M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Ok-Assistance1582
4 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for [North Jersey][m4a][29] Roleplay Massage Fantasy image
[North Jersey][m4a][29] Roleplay Massage Fantasy
M4A
in North Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Master-Audience-7169
5 hours ago
(M4F) Looking for a female with longer toes. Woodbridge, NJ.
M4F
in Woodbridge, NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Trek-Signature-3468
5 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for Living with a mature Indian woman in Central NJ. Can meetup to show her pics. DM if local (m4m) (m4mm) image
Living with a mature Indian woman in Central NJ. Can meetup to show her pics. DM if local (m4m) (m4mm)
M4M Cuckold 🧑‍🍼
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Awkward_School_3623
7 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for m4f/mfm][Centrl nj] looking for a wife or cuck couple to play image
m4f/mfm][Centrl nj] looking for a wife or cuck couple to play
M4F M4MFM
in Centrl nj
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by dieseltank27312
7 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for [28][M4MF][Woodbridge] celebrate my birthday? image
[28][M4MF][Woodbridge] celebrate my birthday?
M4MF
in Woodbridge
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Logical-Artichoke153
9 hours ago
Giants game parking lot M4F
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Spirited-Painting867
10 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for M4F/MF, Morris County, 20 year old college student looking to join a single woman or couples image
M4F/MF, Morris County, 20 year old college student looking to join a single woman or couples
M4F M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Yo-b89
11 hours ago
35 m4mf (Salem county)
M4MF Unicorn 🦄
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Analyzethis2003
11 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for [38] M4FM - what her take a seat image
[38] M4FM - what her take a seat
M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by No_Towel_918
12 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 18 M4F/MF NNJ need my bbc drained image
18 M4F/MF NNJ need my bbc drained
M4F M4MF Bull 🐃
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by liquidcummer
13 hours ago
21m m4f union pm if you dtf
M4F Bull 🐃
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Flimsy-Jaguar-2136
13 hours ago
[33] [M4MF] [NYC] looking for cuck couples for long term
M4MF
in New York City
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Adventurous_Ad6233
18 hours ago
19 m4a madison rn
M4A
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Super_Crow2909
23 hours ago
[25] [M4F] [Cherry Hill] Solo Latino looking for swinger/fwb
M4F
in Cherry Hill
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by KitchenCheff
23 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for [20] [M4MF] [NYC] 6'4 tall guy looking for females and hotwifes Send me a message if you are serious to meet image
[20] [M4MF] [NYC] 6'4 tall guy looking for females and hotwifes Send me a message if you are serious to meet
M4MF Bull 🐃
in New York City
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by feetrcool
1 day ago
24 [M4A] Morris County Sissy CD for playtime tonight
M4A
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Awkward_School_3623
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for m4f/mf][woodbridge] looking for a wife or cuck couple to play image
m4f/mf][woodbridge] looking for a wife or cuck couple to play
M4F M4MF
in Woodbridge
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Ok_Minute6139
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for 39 M4MF/F anyone looking for tonight? image
39 M4MF/F anyone looking for tonight?
M4MF M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Tharkpan
1 day ago
[29] [M4MF/F] [bergen county] Any couples on here want to be watched? Can give massages also! I can also film for couples.
M4MF M4F
in bergen county
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Spiritual-Anything26
1 day ago
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M4fm
M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Graysweatssex
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for 26 [M4MF/F] Essex County, can’t host image
26 [M4MF/F] Essex County, can’t host
M4MF M4F Bull 🐃
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Imaginary_Target9645
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for [25][M4MF][North NJ] - Looking for a morning meetup today. Clean and tested image
[25][M4MF][North NJ] - Looking for a morning meetup today. Clean and tested
M4MF
in North NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by ElkDisastrous8003
1 day ago
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20M4F North Jersey
M4F
in New Jersey