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New Jersey

r/NJ_Lifestyle

23,535 subscribers
This is NJ’s home for everything lifestyle related. It doesn’t matter if you are a swinger, stag, vixen, bull, cuck, hotwife or just interested to see what it’s about. Sit back, relax, and get kinky.

Moderators

Updated Dec 29, 2024
u/Swingswingswings Active
Added 2 years ago
u/SouthJerseyStagVixen Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 41 minutes ago
Also moderates: r/SummerBreakTeens
u/BotDefense Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 41 minutes ago
Also moderates: r/MilitaryMen, r/SexyTGirlOutfits, r/HighHeelTgirls, r/yaoigif, r/EroticWriting, and 1175 more...
u/SouthJerseyStag Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 41 minutes ago
u/Hairy_Constant_1909 Removed
Added 11 months ago • Removed 41 minutes ago
Also moderates: r/R4R_NJ
u/NJCoffeeGuy Removed
Added 11 months ago • Removed 41 minutes ago
u/downlowfuck Active
Added 5 months ago
Also moderates: r/NJr4r, r/PAhookups, r/nj4nj, r/smallasians, r/Longislandhookups, and 9 more...
u/purge-user Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/slutsofsnapchat, r/treesgonewild, r/GWCouples, r/gonewild, r/solesandholes, and 206 more...
u/auto-modmail Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/OhioHookups, r/dktestingbots123, r/Bulges, r/softies, r/Precum, and 100 more...
u/banhammerapp Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/MenGW, r/Precum, r/Bulges, r/ThickDick, r/conroehookup, and 149 more...

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

No posting from out of state.

If you post in multiple regions we will assume you are not from NJ

2

Title Must Show Location in NJ

All posts must include the New Jersey location of the poster in the title. This can be either a town or county. Do NOT use North, Central, or South. Third violation will result in user being banned.

3

No spam or subscription pimping

Do not promote your OnlyThots account or any other 3rd party $ubscrption service. This includes subscription info on your profile and premium Snapchat.

4

No hate/trolls

No phobic posts or comments will be tolerated. This not the place. This includes any threatening comments or attempts at trolling for attention.

5

Unregistered Provider

All p2p providers must get mod permission to post. Please message the mod team and offer discrete verification so that you may participate in the community without getting removed.

6

Low effort posts and comments

Posts with minimal information and/or no pic will be removed and ban issued upon 3rd offense.

Comments like "DM", "hmu", "I messaged you", and "DM me" will be removed and a 3 day ban issued for the 1st offense. Second offense will result in a permanent ban.

7

Don't feed the animals

Anyone feeding into an obvious OnlyThots bait post will be given a SIMP user flair.

8

Blocked a moderator

Blocking a moderator will earn you a permanent ban. No do overs.

9

No Lone Rangers

We get there are a lot of Bulls out there. The sub is turning into a sword fight. No lone rangers. Have a woman in the picture.

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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by NimbleKitty33
1 day ago
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20 [F4M] who’s ready to make my night more interesting?
F4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by MacaronWhirl4
1 day ago
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21 [F4M], Asian living in NJ! Looking for a guy to explore some of my kinks. DMs open!
F4M Vixen 🍒
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Few-Satisfaction6758
2 days ago
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[31] [F4M/MM] Morris County - married woman looking for Asian and Latino muscular men
F4M F4MM
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Worldly-Client7819
3 days ago
23 [F4M] looking for some car play in morris county don't host or drive
F4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by TattedNerdyMama
3 days ago
36 F4M Middlesex county married looking for either online/in person casual play discreet
F4M Vixen 🍒
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by liftcake
4 days ago
Preview thumbnail for 23 [F4M] Westchester - Any muscular gym rats need a new domme? (18-27 only) image
23 [F4M] Westchester - Any muscular gym rats need a new domme? (18-27 only)
F4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by liftcake
1 week ago
Preview thumbnail for 23 [F4M] Westchester - Athletic domme looking for a very muscular submissive toy 😈 image
23 [F4M] Westchester - Athletic domme looking for a very muscular submissive toy 😈
F4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by liftcake
1 week ago
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22 [F4M] Westchester - Athletic blonde domme looking for a muscular boy toy 😈
F4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Sexyfitchick75
1 week ago
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Light me up [F48] Woodbridge
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in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by liftcake
2 weeks ago
Preview thumbnail for 23 [F4M] Westchester - Still haven’t found my muscular submissive toy 😈 Any gym rats on? image
23 [F4M] Westchester - Still haven’t found my muscular submissive toy 😈 Any gym rats on?
F4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Hotwifecucknj
2 weeks ago
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Looking for BWC 3rd 6+ for tomorrow (12/13) night in Monmouth county. Meet for drinks and see where it goes. 40f/41m
F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by liftcake
2 weeks ago
Preview thumbnail for 23 [F4M] Westchester - Kinky domme looking for a muscular play toy 😈 image
23 [F4M] Westchester - Kinky domme looking for a muscular play toy 😈
F4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by liftcake
2 weeks ago
Preview thumbnail for 23 [F4M] Westchester - Domme looking for a muscular toy 😈 Around my age or younger! image
23 [F4M] Westchester - Domme looking for a muscular toy 😈 Around my age or younger!
F4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Astro-Wanderer_
3 weeks ago
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[22F] [F4M] - Looking for someone for an unforgettable evening unique experiences..
F4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Competitive-Pace-260
1 month ago
26 F4M Masseuse offering sloppy oral, body to body massage and also help those looking to have sex for the first time hmu telgrm -maisiegirll- dscord - maisiegirll
F4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Competitive-Pace-260
1 month ago
26 F4M Masseuse offering sloppy oral, body to body massage and also help those looking to have sex for the first time hmu telgrm -maisiegirll- dscord - maisiegirll
F4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by liftcake
1 month ago
Preview thumbnail for 23 [F4M] Westchester - Domme mommy looking for a muscular guy 😈 My age or younger! image
23 [F4M] Westchester - Domme mommy looking for a muscular guy 😈 My age or younger!
F4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by liftcake
1 month ago
Preview thumbnail for 23 [F4M] Westchester - Domme mommy looking for a muscular gym rat 😈 image
23 [F4M] Westchester - Domme mommy looking for a muscular gym rat 😈
F4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by LilMissEbonyVixen
1 month ago
Preview thumbnail for 28 [F4FM] [NYC] - Seeking couple for FMF fun; open to experienced bull image
28 [F4FM] [NYC] - Seeking couple for FMF fun; open to experienced bull
F4MF Unicorn 🦄
in New York City
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by liftcake
1 month ago
Preview thumbnail for 23 [F4M] Westchester - Kinky domme looking for a muscular toy 😈 Please be my age or younger! image
23 [F4M] Westchester - Kinky domme looking for a muscular toy 😈 Please be my age or younger!
F4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by sweetnells
1 month ago
Hi [27f4M] sex at work
F4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by liftcake
1 month ago
Preview thumbnail for 24 [F4M] Westchester - Dominant mistress looking for a muscular guy my age or younger! image
24 [F4M] Westchester - Dominant mistress looking for a muscular guy my age or younger!
F4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Funxcouple1
1 month ago
Preview thumbnail for 25 [f4f] #monmouth he wants to watch tonight. Females only! image
25 [f4f] #monmouth he wants to watch tonight. Females only!
F4F
in Monmouth County, NJ
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by liftcake
1 month ago
Preview thumbnail for 23 [F4M] Westchester / Any muscular guys looking for a new domme? Into my age or younger! image
23 [F4M] Westchester / Any muscular guys looking for a new domme? Into my age or younger!
F4M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by MaterialOrganic5232
1 month ago
[26] [f4f] mount laurel any girls wanna have some funn?? Clean girls only
F4F
in New Jersey