So I just recently saw someone post about this place called Karizma social club on this thread and I genuinely was curious as to what it entails. What does it have? Does it pertain to the hotwife/swinger lifestyle?
We're regulars. Annual members. Amazing club with great people. Ask us anything. Halloween this year was WILD. Strongly urge anyone interested in the lifestyle start there not on Reddit, not in any app. It's a very welcoming, very safe place to explore your boundaries as long as you communicate and are open.
Just communicate well, have a great social relaxed time and be clear with ppl you talk to, ask questions include yourselves, you'll have a blast and be comfortable in no time. Just to warn in general the LS is typically 35-55 so you will be on the younger side of most ppl in most LS settings. However, believe us when we tell you that there are 50 yr olds who are hotter and better in bed than any 20 something you may find yourselves chasing in an app. People are very much like wine.
Depends on the night. Some parties are huge some are mellow. Members can see guest list so if you want insight on a quieter medium night I can let you know. As far as people approaching you all night. No. Not usually, if you kind of sit alone, look nervous, don't approach others your not too likely to be approached. People in the LS take consent extremely seriously and also aren't usually making newbies be social. But there is nothing to worry about, talking to people isn't consenting or even making clear intent to play, you can establish right upfront with people hey we're new here and probably not playing tonight but can we ask you about how things are here, etc ... Etc... the club actually gets called cliquish and unfriendly by some newbies who don't understand people aren't going to be begging them to be social or just approaching them at random . It will be as fun and social as YOU make it.
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I mean you did kind of miss the main age demo time of life most people do this from 40-50 which is the major demo for LS in gerneral but there are certainly still folks creeping towards 60 who still go to Karizma, go to takeover, and LS vacations. At Karizma my experience is that 80% is in the 40-50, 95% if you widen to 35-55. The last 5% fall outside that younger than 35 and older than 55. We go 1 time a month-ish. More in Fall less in summer.
Such a great club regardless of your age or the club that night you will have a great time if you go with the right mindset.