Hi everyone, we are a married couple 40f/41m. Wife is looking to play with a 3rd. Not looking for some guy to just hit and quit but not looking for a second marriage. Want to meet a nice guy who is a BWC or BLC (sorry no BBC). Would like to turn it into a friendship with benefits, semi regular and long term if the fit is right. Mrs. also has an aversion to the terms “bull” and “lifestyle.” Be forewarned lol.

First off…anyone messaging can I fuck you/fuck your wife will be immediately deleted. Amazing how many people think that works, do you try that in a bar?

We are not looking for a one night stand on a random meet up. My wife is looking to meet someone, have drinks and hang out. See if they hit it off. Say goodbye for the night and then see if they want to meet up again. Anyone who is expecting to get laid the first time they meet is wasting their time. That said, she isn’t looking for a second husband either. She’s just not the type to meet up for random sex with strangers. She has to get to know you first. Ultimately, that is the goal, but it’s not just going to be a hi, nice to meet you, where do we fuck kinda deal the first time you meet.

We aren’t really looking to hear from blank profiles unless there is something captivating in the intro message and a few pics to follow.

She is looking to find a handsome, hung, normal guy who would like to text/sext in between meets and not just hey you want to meet. If we are a match on reddit, we would move the conversation to telegram which is much better for texting for us. Full disclosure, we have a joint account and everything is 100% transparent between us, there are no secrets.

Ultimately, the Mrs likes to play alone without me, but you never know.

If you are a normal, handsome, clean, and hung guy…please feel free to message and see if we hit if off here first.