I’ve tried this previously and talked to some really great guys, but things never materialize because of distance or work schedules. So here I am trying again.

41M looking for my unicorn. I'm looking for what would probably best be described as a polyamorus LTR with another man.

A little bit about my background will put this in better perspective. I'm married to a heterosexual cis gendered woman. We've been together for a very long time and love each other very deeply. There is no desire to change that relationship. My wife and I have discussed this quite extensively and think that me finding a "boyfriend" would be beneficial to me and our relationship as a whole. She really loves and supports my bisexuality, and wants to see me be able to explore that more. Frankly, I do too.

I'm just really tired of the hook up culture. It's not for me. Yeah I've had some hot man on man sex, but for the most part it has been less than desirable. I want to find a guy that I can really build a connection with. Having that closeness will absolutely make the sex much more pleasureable than any hook up could ever be, but it's not just about that either. I want to experience what it's like to be in love with another man. I want to hold hands, I want to kiss, I want to date, I want to make love.

Me: 41, white (German/Swiss/English/Scottish), 5' 10", dirty blonde hair, blue eyes, 200lbs, average build, bisexual bottom. Drug and disease free (tested regularly). I have never barebacked and would love to be used like that. I'm not out but I don't exactly hide it either. It just isn't something that I discuss publicly. I'm pretty masculine and straight appearing. You would probably never know I was bi by looking at me. I love the outdoors. I enjoy going to beach, hiking, camping, and biking. I love movies. Not a big sports guy, but I don't hate them. I love beer and whiskey.

You: Around my age /- 10 years (Not a hard rule, just not old enough to be my father), I prefer white and Latino guys (again not a hard rule), my height or taller, bisexual or gay top. I'm not a size queen, but would like average or better (cut please). I prefer a more masculine man that doesn't mind being dominant. Be drug and disease free (have proof). Non-smoker. Country boys and blue collar types to the front of the line. Live in South Jersey or close to Atlantic County, and must be able to host.

I know this is probably a long shot, but if this sounds like something that you would be into please feel free to message me. Serious inquiries only please.