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I myself will start off simple.
I am looking for somone I can have sexual relations with, without having to worry about breaking their heart again, as I am tired of love towards me getting people hurt.
Also as much as I love the idea of a relationship, I just don't seem to be on the same "capacity" as most are for that stuff, and have had women fall in love with me and be hurt by the fact I didn't feel the same. (As differences in what we value and wanted in a relationship kept me from feeling close, as I am a man of action, but they loved my actions and who I was, but didn't have enough shared actions with me for me to feel the same)
But when it comes to relationships, and love I am good at creating it (even if it doesn't seem possible for me to hold onto it myself), so I figured I am open to helping whoever I have sex with find a partner that's right for them, as I still want them to have their life and happiness too.
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As for the sexual stuff.
I am 6'2", with an 8" dick.
I am white, skinny/average body fat wise, I am a bit on the harier side, often viewed as a 7/10 with no effort put in.
I know I am very skilled at sex, having been all my past partners best sex, I also can teach for those who are less expeirnced.
I am open to experimentation, but will admit, I haven't had any good sex on my end yet, and hoping to find ways to enhance the expeirnce for both of us.
I enjoy forplay, but prefer somone who also is more active, as I enjoy a sense of mutual effort and movement.
I have some experience with various things, such as whipping, public, discreet, mental, vanilla, oral, hand based, nipple play, fisting, and more.
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What my preferences are
Black or darker skin tones (non white) On the average or fit side (too fat is meh, too skinny is also meh) More rugged or natural face Not tiny breast, but not disproportionately big either
I am not supper fuccy about looks, but have always been more attracted to those types of looks
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When it comes to personality, this is everything
Good communication, is willing to speak their feelings, and wants and doesn't make it all about me.
Knows how to be themselves and Not just agree with everything or feel like they have to be socially appropriate or masking (are we here to have fun, or impress your boss?.... as I am sure we can do both by dropping the act. Lol)
Understands and knows how to enforce their own boundaries and advocate for themselves. (Let's remember, safety and mutual happiness are important)
Also I prefer no condoms, but I know this is negotiable as protection and mutual understanding/trust, are important.
Being open to communicate and not afraid to ask questions or take the lead (as the fun is about us both enjoying ourselves, so make sure your there for yourself too)
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Feel free to message me for any questions or comments. Additionally, this arrangement doesn't have to start and end with sex, if discussed we can also arrange it to be a fun dates and other activities as well, as my goal is to have fun.
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Most important part... we have no sex until we discuss and understand our boundaries, communication, concerns, expectations, and agreed upon features.
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