Hey there. Fair warning that this is gonna be long and personal, but to the potential partner reading this, you're worth it.
TL;DR: I'm a 23-year-old male, moderately athletic with a fit & toned body, brown hair, and hazel eyes, looking for a sub who is equally passionate in life and yearns to give in/be challenged by her trusted partner for a rewarding ethical kinky partnership
I also have experience as a Bull as well. So if youāre a Hotwife lookin for a responsible & consistent playmate come swing by and introduce yourself!
"Who is this man behind the words?"
Physically - I'm 23, single, with brown hair and hazel eyes, moderately athletic (fit & toned body), non-smoker, clean/DDF.
Personality - I'm a mixture of passion, support, and just the right amount of deviancy. I've been described as playful, caring, communicative, honest, creative, mature, witty, curious, easy to talk to, driven, patient, open-minded... and a lot more. My love languages tend to be quality time, physical touch, and words of affirmation.
Interests - Part homebody, part social. I've got a pretty eclectic assortment of interests, including: TV/film (almost any genre), Kayaking, music (my playlist can be described as an identity crisis it has so many genres) , history museums, gaming (Tabletop & Video games) , reading/writing (When the mood strikes), health (āmental health is confidenceā) Hopefully we share a few interests already.
Who and what I'm looking for
My ideal partner has the same qualities that I bring: she loves to explore/learn/try new things, she's active/takes care of her physical mental health, she has goals, she is communicative, empathetic, giving, loyal, honest, and kinky. Iām not looking to be a one time fling, Iām looking to be a consistent Bull or Dom for the right partner.
I'm open to a few s-type identities (submissive, brat, middle, and slave are the ones I have experience with)
My only dealbreakers in a partner are: Alcoholics, Poor communicators, Any STIs/STDs, and cheaters (not trying to be a home wrecker, or encourage that sort of behavior).
Do you already recognize yourself & think we could be compatible? Don't hesitate to reach out~
I know it can be intimidating to message so please know you are always appreciated!
The kinky stuff
Experience - Whether this is your first rodeo or not, I'm welcoming of all as I've been in the lifestyle for the past 6 years. In that time, I've had D/s relationships to different degrees (including, TPE, M/s, and dabbling with protocols) which have led me to narrow down what I desire, hence this post. I'm an open book and always happy to answer anything on your mind! If you're curious and inquisitive, we're probably a perfect match already!
D/s dynamic - I consider myself your catharsis, comfort, and accountability rolled into one. Nurturing but exhilarating, sweet yet firm, dominant but respectful. The one constant is that I'm big on communication, care, reliability, and consistency making our partnership not just a safe-space but something unique to one another. Each dynamic is unique so it's not a one-size-fits-all. Obviously nothing happens until we've established clear connection, consent, and mutual respect. Much more to discuss together.
My hard limits - ABDL/diapers and scat
My kinks - Include impact play, bondage/shibari, sensation play, orgasm control/edging, some humiliation/degradation, praise, service, training/tasks/protocols, among some othersā¦
Until our paths cross~
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