Hey as salamu alaykum!

I have a question for sisters. Feel free to make another burner account in case you’re afraid of getting DM’d by random guys. I am from a religious background and very practicing, Alhumdulilah, like many of you whom I had the pleasure to speak with over the past few weeks. I just think it’s interesting to see that other side of our community we wouldn’t normally see in normal circumstances. But coming to my question…I do think there are a few guys on here, including myself, who are looking for someone who will be both sexually open and expressive in the relationship. I agree things like porn and other things should definitely not be explored in a marriage, although I think there’s ample room for fantasies, fetishes and kinks; for example, threesome, swinger and group sex scenarios have always interested me, and as long as they remain as thoughts…well you get the picture. I’ve spoken to a lot of practicing sisters over the years and there seems to be a wide variation that ranges anywhere from incest to lesbian. Truth be told, we all have our own unique preferences, and finding a loving environment where we can satisfy that without judgement is key. Oh, right, my question! It’s clearly many people on here are looking for a spouse, inshaAllah — but what would be your advice to serious guys like me who’d want to start a conversation with any one of you?

Jazakallahu Khayran!