Recently married 4 months (30M and wife 25F). Before marriage I confimed with their parents if she even speaks hindi/urdu to which they made her speak to my mom in hindi and we did the marriage.

1 month into marriage I asked her its best if we switch to hindi and she tells me she does not really speak well hindi and that she is not able to think of words that happen in a regular conversation.

How bad is this? I feel like whats the point of me asking her parents about if she speaks hindi if she speaks but is not comfortable. Its been 4 months and we still dont have the emotional connection and are doing couples counselling which is working good so far but the communication thing keeps me worried always. I dont want my kids to not know how to speak hindi/urdu.