Salaam,

Just a reminder that I am looking for genuine help and not creeps here.

My husband and I have been working to improve our relationship after many rough obstacles in our marriage.

One of the things we had to improve on was intimacy and Alhamdulilah he has shown improvement.

But recently he has been under a lot of work stress and I feel like it has affected him a lot.

We had some intimate time together but I noticed he was not getting hard and I was doing “all the work”.

Yes I understand that he is physically exhausted from his work in recent weeks…. he works till late and there is a lot of mental stress he deals with at work….

But is it the reason why he couldn’t get hard now when he used to be fine before?

If there are any sisters who have faced such issues, please share if you found any solutions.

And the men, please comment here if you have something beneficial to say, and do not come into my DMs.

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EDIT: I read all of your comments and hopefully all the advices are beneficial Insha Allah