I've been on the feminization medications for several years now, despite not being out to any of my family or those I live with. Several people know outside of that specific grouping, but that isn't the point. Because I'm not out to family, I have to try and hide certain aspects of my body and appearance on family get togethers. The last year or so I've gotten multiple comments from different people saying that my chest has gotten large and that I need to start wearing bras or go to the gym and lose weight. While I am kind of heavy, the shape of my chest is clearly not fatty in the way they are thinking. I'm scared that it will out me before I'm comfortable enough to do it myself. Does anybody have any advice or tips to hide my bust?