30 year old post op MTF Southeast asian here. I’m so curious to know how dating is for post op trans? I have been in a relationship for 8 years and i had my confirmation surgery 3 years into the relationship. We only had sex 4 times after that. We love each other but it has become a sexless union. The last time i dated was when i was 22 I look very much desirable, fit and very much sensual yet i havent had any action for the last 3-4 years I am becoming so frustrated. I dont even know how to date anymore. i feel like most men were attracted to the idea of me extremely passing ( Voice, looks, natural boobs, etc) yet i had a cock. I felt like i was practically a taboo and a commodity. Men desired me then and now that i’m post op, i’m not really sure if how it’s like. I’m afraid to put out myself out there. I was braver pre-op. I just didnt care. I was honest. Now i feel like i always have to make a disclaimer for my man made vagina.m

edit: It’s been a month since i wrote this and i still feel like i’m so so sexually repressed. I get so much attention on a daily but couldn’t act on it because i feel like i always have to explain things, like a disclaimer. I’m soooo not having it. 😒