I just wanted to share my experience today, my first time bra shopping in person. My girlfriend wears a size that just isn't stocked in most stores, and my band currently small cup size combo can be tricky as well. She suggested we take a trip to Ann's Bra Shop (highly recommend if you are in the St Louis metro area in Missouri, or Ofallon IL area. I believe they also do online ordering). I wasn't especially dressed up, just some nice black jeans and a tank top, I would say I probably looked more androgynous than anything else tbh, but the lady at the store approached me and asked if I needed help, etc just like I was anyone else, and it was just so affirming. She then, after I explained my sizing issue, she basically said that she had similar issues, and basically said something to the effect of "Ann's has a bra for just about any one of us girls", and I just about melted from happiness. Long story short, euphoria goes brrrrrr. Hope everyone has a nice day!