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How to deal with feelings of loneliness and inadequacy before you’re ready to date?
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I mean I KNOW I shouldn’t be trying to date now. I’m super desperate for validation which is not a healthy mindset to be in. Also I don’t nearly pass enough yet for a lesbian to find me attractive.

People say I should “work on myself” in the meantime but that doesn’t stop these feelings of loneliness and inadequacy. I feel like I have all this romantic energy and I have nowhere to put it. Not to mention that as I get older and older the chances of finding a first time LTR become slimmer and slimmer (28 rn).

Does anyone have any suggestions on how to maybe just make this crushing weight feel a bit more bearable?

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