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Hi So I'm pre-op, I've been on hormones since november. At that time I also started taking antidepressants. All this totally killed my libido and I haven't had any erections december-may. After stoping my antidepressants in may my libido slowly raised. Now I really need sex sometimes but I'm unable to have it. My penis hurts as hell even if it gets midly hard. And thats just from me making some pleasure to my gf. I can't be touched. I can't be kissed. All this results in huge pain down there. I can bare the midly hard erection for a minute or so. Everything more and I need to stop immediately. I don't even touch it. I don't want to touch it. I don't need an erection to have sex. I just want the pain gone. It's killing me. Any way to stop it from getting hard at all? Help!
Your penis is a muscle. It is atrophying. It happens. Yes, it will hurt but you need to be getting erections to fix it. Just like working any other muscle out. I recommend a vibrator something very simple like a tiny wand or bullet. Use it slowly and it will encourage an erection. That is what I do and it works well. Yeah it is uncomfortable but you need it in the long run
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