Idk if it‘s just me, my family or whatever but since I started to question my identity I more and more realized that growing up as male and people regarding me as that never taught me anything about self care and all that.

Skin care? not for boys Learning how to properly care for your hair? you don‘t need that make up? shush is for girlies style and clothing? nah just wear a tight shirt

I‘m more and more reclaiming/learning those things and those are such nice steps into the way I want to go and want to be but I can’t help feeling so angry on how society treated me for the last 22 years and I often ask myself if it‘s just a me thing or if other people went through the same struggle.