I'm a 19 year old aro lesbian trans girl living in Burlington, VT for fall semester and going to college here. I have a lot of trauma regarding sex(details of which I am not going into in a public space like this). I'm trying to find hookups but all the either dating apps or hookup apps are all just a cash grab and its hard to actually find people to meet up with because no ones on. I attempted to post on some vermont related subs but then it just ended up being only men in my dms who seemed kinda creepy. So I came here for some advice: what websites or platforms should a young trans girl like me be using to find women I can have a fun time with. Should I be using reddit on a different sub? Or should I use something else. I need some help because I'm trying to heal some of that trauma through healthy experimentation and exposure.