Hii everyone!

Soooo I don't want to be super lewd, but I'm a trans woman looking to move to Europe in the next year where I can get bottom surgery for free or atleast for low cost and was wondering, "how do you gals date someone who may like one genitalia when you know you will be changing it soon?"

I'm into bdsm and am a huge masochist so it doesn't affect me much since it seems to be the only way I can have good sex considering the fact that I'm so uncomfortable with my body, but I find it hard to date considering most people like only one genitalia or another. It's hard enough as is being trans dating,etc alone looking for a specific genre of bdsm, but beyond that I don't even have consistent genitalia so i feel it's going to be hard to find the right person.

I've only ever dated t4t but I'm hoping to be able to branch out a little so my options aren't so limited (not that I don't like trans people, you all are lovely <3. I just don't know if I can find the exact right person who's trans and also lives in Sweden or is willing to relocate)

Do you have any advice or experience in who to look for?