This absolutely sucks, as a person who is keen to date for the long term, dating sucks. Especially, when I pretty early in my HRT and just general transition. No one likes me, feels like this will be case for the rest of my life, even though it probably won't. I am bi, but any time I chat with a guy, within a day it's already sexual and feel like a toy for them to fetishize after they been watching hours of trans porn. Legit, first message a guy sent me, was 'I want to rim you so badly', jeez, thanks i guess, no one wants to get to know me. Women, probably just see me as a man and won't remotely interested, even if they are Bi or Pan. It's making me depressed and feel like I should detransition to have a proper relationship but that's just a ridiculous notion.

I don't know what to do, I feel like I need to finish transitioning, but that could take years and I don't fancy doing it all myself, even with my amazing support system around me. I hate being single, it sucks and I don't wanna force myself in to a relationship because of that.

Do you girls have tips or advice? I am not fancying exploring my sexual side with hook-ups.