I'm really struggling with my status of being Transgender. Not that I am ashamed but I honestly do not know where I belong. I'm Intersexed, born with a vulva but no vagina. My parents performed a sex reassignment "surgery" on me that constructed my labia into a scrotum, enlarged my clitoris, and created a urethra to be at the tip of my clitoris. I've just recently found out more of what happened in that what I thought was my penis is actually a clitoris. I'm struggling with where I belong. I was socialized male and "raised as male" the only reason I have an M on my birth certificate is because I was operated on when I was 7 days old. Am I trans or something else? I know I am intersexed but I just really don't want to encroach upon a space in which I do not belong. I am a woman, I know that without a doubt, I've felt that way my whole life. My parents did something to me when I was little to kickstart my Testosterone production and I do not much ejaculate or produce sperm. Am I even welcome in Trans spaces? or am I some "detransitioner" against my own will?