So, to be fair I’m (35yo) technically closer to a femme enby, but because I’m AMAB, and uninterested in bottom surgery (kind of clashes with my mixed gender identity), I’m looking for advice here. For starters, I’m not out to everyone in my life, like my parents, so I have to pass as male in certain situations. So I’m interested in a moderate course of hormones in order to grow relatively small cleavage which can be concealed when necessary, and as a former male, my penis was kind of an asset to my sex life and I’m hoping to keep it relatively unchanged. What advice might those of you with experience and knowledge have for me?

EDIT: Based on responses I wonder if HRT is really the way I want to go…there’s some variability—undesirable from my point of view, as a prospective patient trying to learn what the experience may consistently be like for my body—in that some people are years into HRT and haven’t experienced any shrinkage or diminished function in their penises, whereas others report greatly diminished size and function, as well as a shift in sensation away from this organ. I think that breast augmentation surgery may be the preferred route due to the unanticipated physiological changes which I’m looking to avoid. Until the science of hormone therapy allows for more localized application and changes, I don’t know if I’d be very happy with it.