Ok to clarify I'm 1 year and around 8 months on hrt but due to specific circumstances that cannot be explained in full here. Um ok so this man is a member of my extended family and he is a friend of my father days ago he visited us and i went to greet him and i was not in a femme clothes neither presenting in any feminine way except some normal things like some accessories but even those are male dominated types when i saluted him he called me using feminine pronounce the language he use isn't English so the language we use toward each other has a distinctive gender forms it is clearly he was acting out of joking but under seriously framed language and that in front of my father as both were smiling at me i got embarrassed and gathered my courage and asked why would he call me like that? He replied: there are indicators so days went on today we met again he passed beside me saluting me using feminine pronounce and even flirting with me you know whenever someone call you beautiful but regardless of that i shave but not all my beard i keep part of it and style it in a so called square beard style my question is that do cis men have some kind of a detector or some way to recognize?? Can they really know or feel something deep? I'm worried because i don't want things to go out of control!