I'm struggling like a fish out of water trying to understand what is acceptable or not. Frankly I think I'm more tomboyish in some regards and don't necessarily care about fashion standards but I'm supposed to in certain situations I'm told. If I had my way I'd just wear shirts and skirts every day.

I like a black color palette, just don't like how color looks on me. I'm a bigger girl so that also adds constraint.

Can someone please help me understand what is acceptable for different seasons and occasions? The terminology and different types of clothing?

Living as a guy it was rather simple, pants, shorts, athletic shorts, t shirts and whatnot.

I am completely and utterly lost and I have mom breathing down my neck about it all. Can someone please help?

I could also use some help with shoes for the right occasion, accounting for my large (14 women's 12 men's) feet.

Thank you