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So I have been debating and going back and forth on if I should post this or not, but have finally worked up the nerves to do so sooo here we go. To basically summarize my gf (mtf) early in 2022 (since now its 2023 so can't say this year anymore) said how she felt she wanted to transition to being a female.
Now I've been trying to be as supportive as possible. Doing things like giving her feminine clothes that I've either bought or that I already owned, using her preferred name and pronouns, acting a bit more masculine myself, saving up money to help her pay for treatments and surgeries and trying to buy items like corsets and this weird thingy we found thats supposed to be sexual but seemed perfect for helping her tuck and look like she has a vagina etc.
However as it stands I feel personally that I am not doing enough really and should be supporting her further, she honestly is neutral on it all like I could be not helping at all and from her end she'd be just as happy (or so she says at least it mostly seems like its more so a excuse for her to see what ways I try to help). But thats why I've been debating on this whole thing that honestly didn't need all these paragraphs lol (sorry!)
So to just get to the whole point of this post, how do you people who are more all definitely far more experienced on this topic then me feel I could further help her/support her further?
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