So this has been an ongoing obsession. It started off with making comments that she was beautiful. I’ve mentioned that I saw everything on the baby monitor (one son sleeps in her dressing room when we visit). I’ve texted her telling her that I think she looks sexy when she wears certain outfits (she just sent back a laughing emoji) and she usually doesn’t respond to flirting texts.

I don’t know whether to forget the whole thing or see if I can get her to act/say something sexual. She is a pretty uptight Catholic. She’s married and has never mentioned any of our interactions to my wife (I even snooped on her phone and saw she deleted the text where I said she was sexy)

Do I give up? Keep the fantasy to myself? Keep pushing. I don’t need something physical but I crave sexual attention/flirting from her. She is really sexy with 36c and a great ass.

Any thoughts or ideas?