Welcome to MontanaBDSM! This a subreddit for all the kinky folks in Montana! Here is some extra information and clarification about the sub! If you have questions, please reach out to the mods via modmail or messages for the fastest response.

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User Verification

In order to post in this subreddit, members must verify. You can do so by filling out this form, https://forms.gle/69MCk4ZqZKjUp2p8A

In order to keep everyone safe, this includes verification of your age via a picture of your ID (with sensitive information blurred out, as well as a photo of your face. (More detailed instructions are written on the form.) These photos will have to be uploaded to an image-sharing site like Imgur, and a link provided. If you would like an alternative option, please reach out to the mods.

This subreddit is 18 only for everyone's safety. The sexualization of minors or animals is not allowed.

Post Formatting

Searching Posts

If you're looking for a play partner, please follow the guidelines below to make your post!

1. Title: Your title must follow the format of: [Age] [Gender4Gender] [City/Location] - [Title]; this may look like "32 M4F Bonner - Looking for a lady to Dom me” or “22/23 MM4M Missoula - Gay couple looking for a submissive third.” As shown in the example, couples need to include both members' ages, separated by a / (even if you are the same age, please do this). and both genders included.
   If you are trans, for your gender marker you can put T, TM/TF or NB, whichever you prefer. If you're only putting T, please make sure to specify in your title or post if you are a trans man, trans woman, nonbinary, or something else!
   If you are doing an anonymous set-up, like a Gloryhole, put NB as your gender if you prefer it to be private.
2. Post body: Please include what kinks you are looking for, or what type of play you are seeking! You also must include a decent amount of body to your posts, please don't just put "Looking for fun, DM me" or things of that nature, posts must have effort.
   A better post might look like "I'm looking for a Primal Dom to do a chase scene with me this Saturday. I'm into play wrestling, taller men, and people with deep voices. I'm 5'4", relatively strong, and have a few years of experience in the kink community, but am newer to the primal scene. I'm only looking for people above the Age of 30, please send me a message if you'd be interested!"
3. No photos or videos; Please do not include photos, videos, or links to photo-sharing websites in your looking posts. Those are better kept to private messages.
4. Make sure to flair your post correctly. Searching posts must use one of the searching flairs, such as "M4F" or "Couple", there is also an "other" tag that can be edited by users, if your gender isn't available, or you are doing an anonymous set-up, use this flair and edit as needed.
5. Do not include your phone #, address, etc directly in the post or title, for your safety and privacy, please keep that in private messages.

If you have any questions about how to format your post or are confused about why your post was removed, please reach out to the mods.

Meta Posts

Meta Posts would be posts about the subreddit itself, such as discussions about if you feel people are spamming the subreddit and want to see if other people are feeling the same way. These sorts of posts help the mods see how members in the community are feeling and if changes need to be made. Please flair these posts with the "Meta" flair.

Discussion Posts

Discussion posts are posts that talk about kinks or fetishes and engage the community. This could be talking about if people refer condoms or no condoms, or asking how other people met their play partners, or talking about your favorite kink and how different people like to engage in it. Please use the "discussion" fair for these posts. Also, please make them at least a couple sentences to help make them a jumping-off point for discussions with other users!

Photos and Videos

Please make sure to appropriately fair images & videos. Titles do not have a specific format, but may not include advertisements, links, or upvote begging. You must also have the consent of everyone shown in any photo you post, if there is more than one person, mods may ask for proof of consent from both/all parties.