When my wife and I decided to explore CNM for our sex life, we wanted to make sure we were on the same page. So, we did this thing called a "One Liner Exercise". Basically, we talked about every possible topic we could think of and came up with short and sweet one-liners that summed up our thoughts and desires as clearly as possible. These became the framework for our rules and boundaries. It was actually a fun and eye-opening experience, and it helped us have clear and exciting discussions.

I found a bunch of the old sticky notes that we used for that discussion in my desk drawer the other day. I'm a bit of a dork, so I thought it'd be fun to have generative AI evaluate some of our one-liners and see what it could glean about us - our relationship, our intentions... you name it. Basically, to see how well we did, and you know what? Apparently, we must have done a pretty good job because AI nailed our intent.

I gave AI two questions and our responses. Here they are along with it’s analysis.

Question 1: Describe your ideal nonmonogamy dynamic as if you’re describing it to someone new.

Our Response: “We sometimes have bisexual threesomes with bisexual men.”

Question 2: Why are you considering CNM?

My Response: “After all this time, never ever or one and done are not realistic”

Her Response: “I don’t need it, but I’ll take it and enjoy the hell out of it.”

AI Prompt: Based on the information provided, what can you tell me about this married couple’s relationship?

AI’s Analysis: Based on the statement provided, we can observe the following about this married couple:

1. They engage in bisexual threesomes, suggesting a willingness to explore diverse sexual experiences within their relationship.

2. The threesomes occur only "sometimes," indicating that they are not a regular or constant part of their sexual activities.

3. Both partners actively participate, as indicated by the use of the word "we." This suggests a shared interest and consent in engaging in these threesomes.

4. The husband is identified as bisexual since the statement specifies "bisexual threesomes" and includes the term "bisexual men."

5. It could be inferred that the wife's sexual orientation is heterosexual, since the statement implies that she is involved in sexual encounters with bisexual men.

6. There is an element of openness and trust between the couple, as they engage in sexual activities involving multiple partners.

7. Communication and consent are likely important in their relationship, given the need for clear boundaries, expectations, and ongoing dialogue about participating in bisexual threesomes.

8. The couple prioritizes sexual exploration and variety, seeking to add novelty and adventure to their sexual experiences.

9. They potentially value diversity and inclusivity, specifically seeking out bisexual men as sexual partners.

10. Engaging in bisexual threesomes may contribute to their shared intimacy, excitement, and fulfillment within their relationship.

11. The couple is comfortable with non-monogamous arrangements: Their engagement in bisexual threesomes suggests a level of comfort and openness towards exploring non-monogamy within their relationship.

12. They prioritize sexual satisfaction and fulfillment: By actively engaging in sexual encounters with other individuals, the couple shows a dedication to seeking pleasure and satisfaction beyond what may be provided by their relationship alone.

13. They may have established rules and boundaries: Given the nature of engaging in threesomes, it is likely that the couple has established rules, guidelines, and boundaries to ensure that all parties involved feel respected and comfortable throughout the sexual experiences.

14. The couple values sexual fluidity and fluid expression: By intentionally seeking out bisexual men, the couple demonstrates an openness and appreciation for the diversity of sexual orientations and recognizes the potential for fluidity in individual sexual expressions.

15. The threesomes may serve to enhance their connection and intimacy: Engaging in shared sexual experiences, especially those beyond the conventional boundaries of monogamy, may heighten their bond and foster a deeper sense of trust and intimacy between the couple.

16. The wife's statement suggests that she does not have an inherent desire or need for bisexual threesomes or even sex outside the dyad, however, she is willing to engage in them for the sake of her husband and her own enjoyment or satisfaction.

17. Her willingness to participate in such sexual experiences may stem from her openness to exploring her own desires or fulfilling her partner's desires.

18. The husband acknowledges his attraction towards men and expresses that completely giving up the possibility of engaging in sexual experiences with other men, due to being married, would be unrealistic for him.

19. His comment may indicate that he desires to explore and fulfill his same-sex attractions while recognizing the limitations imposed by his commitment to his marriage.

20. It suggests that the husband values authenticity and the acknowledgement of his own desires, even if they don't align with societal expectations or traditional notions of monogamy.

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