Please read the rules before posting to avoid disappointment.
Moderators
Subreddit Rules
Be kind and respectful to one another.
R1. Kindness, Respect and Tolerance
Everyone deserves to be treated with basic respect and kindness regardless of their Race, Sexual preferences, Disability, Appearance or Age.
We're all humans just looking for some freaky love.
Only those who are 18+ may interact with this community in any way.
Report any and all minors, as well as those seeking them.
R2. Title Format Requirements
Post titles must follow a format otherwise they will be removed.
Your title must have a sexual preference [M4F], [M4M], [F4F], [M4T], you get the idea. Your title must also contain a rough location such as #Liverpool or #Ohio, #UK or #EU as well as an age.
For example: 29[M4F] #EU - Looking for a local dom
Posy with unnecessarily long titles will be removed.
Monogamous, Romantic Relationships Only. No Payment, Hookups, or "Just looking to chat."
If you are poly-amorous or looking for a hookup in any form, I ask that you please try other subreddits. No payment is to be asked or discussed in any manner. Those selling services will be banned immediately. No posts just looking for friends or to chat. There are plenty of subreddits for that as well. Violators may be bonked and promptly banned.
R3. No OnlyFans, Fansly, NSFW service Sellers are prohibited
Onlyfans, Fansly or any NSFW service Sellers are prohibited from advertising on this subreddit and by proxy, no payment transactions of any kind are allowed.
State in your post clearly that you are monogamous and looking for long-term romance.
Please state clearly that you are monogamous and looking for romance somewhere in your post. Otherwise it may be taken down so you can revise it, if it is vague. It now needs to be verbatim. Something like, "I want something monogamous and long-term."
Filters are needed so that the community can be focused, strong, and healthy. A lot of people looking just to chat out of boredom or find fwb's remain vague or lack resolution in their posts.
R4. Post Frequency
You are allowed to post once every 7 days. This is to prevent spam posting.
Deleting your post to bypass the cooldown is an automatic permanent ban.
No Payment of any kind.
R5. Advert Originality
All personal ads must be original, no copying other peoples ads. If you read something that you like, you are free to copy it in your own words but copying entire ads is prohibited.
This also includes re-pasting your ad to bypass certain filters. This will get you perma banned.
No hookups/casual flings.
R6. Strictly 18+
This is a NSFW subreddit, it will contain pornographic descriptions and/or images.
Any minors found to be on this subreddit will be immediately permanently banned and the information forwarded to Reddits safety team.
No "Just looking to chat."
R7. Account requirements
All accounts must be at least 15 days old and have at least 10 post and comment karma. This is to prevent multi accounting and bots.
No nudity or lewd behavior.
Given the nature of this dynamic, it is completely okay and encouraged to talk about the things you'd like to do with your partner in an intimate setting inside your post. Please don't be overly descriptive, and definitely no images including nudity or lewd behavior.
Special: Failed Automod
Live and let live.
What you do outside of this subreddit is your business and your business alone. However, if it becomes a grievance for other members, you will be asked politely to stop. Further action will be taken with repeat offenses.
Personal Ads Only and Frequency.
No memes, discussion posts, or anything else. Personal ads may be posted only once every 3 days. It's a small sub-reddit, so it won't be necessary for a long while to reupload so often. We will adjust the interval should the need arise.
Mods have the final say, but we will try our best to be hands-off.
High-Quality Posts only.
You are presenting yourself to somebody you want to spend your life with potentially, so please put decent effort into your post. Please include a flair in your title and as a tag. Make sure to include a location in your title.
You can comment on posts, but keep it SFW, relevant, and respectful. Click for more details.
Commenting is only allowed if it's to warn others of proven/potential cat-fishing, scamming, or any other things the community may benefit from knowing. Any arguments or fighting must be done privately or not at all.
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