Hello!

I’m a big-hearted Person who loves D&D, deep conversations, and a good cuddle. I’m looking for a non-monogamous/poly relationship where my Domme is my primary partner—someone I can devote myself to while the both of us have the freedom to explore other connections, all while honoring the agreed upon conditions and boundaries of our dynamic.

Submission, for me, is more than just play—it’s an expression of care, love, and loyalty. If having a devoted, affectionate submissive who adores you sounds appealing, we might be a great fit!

About Me

I live alone and work as a Network Engineer in the Portland, Oregon metro area (PST - West Coast USA).

I’m 6 feet tall with hazel eyes, broad shoulders, and brown hair (currently growing it out). I also keep a short beard. Body-wise, I’m a bigger person (Currently ~270 lbs, steadily working toward 220). I’ve made great progress and am excited to keep going! You can find some pictures here and here.

Interests & Personality

• Gaming: D&D, Soulslikes, and Metroidvanias
  
• Tinkering: Fixing computers, radios, and gadgets
  
• Movies/TV: High fantasy, sci-fi, comedy, and the occasional drama
  
• Exploring: Long walks, cooking, dive bars, beach trips, and Saturday markets
  

I’m laid-back, easygoing, and love to laugh. Honest, loyal, and kind. I believe in continuous self-improvement and strive to be my best self.

As a devoted submissive, I love making my Domme feel wanted and appreciated. I thrive on being a source of security, joy, and support while bringing Golden Retriever energy—eager to please and always ready to serve.

Growth & Self-Discovery

I’m actively improving my health and well-being—eating better, walking more, and working toward my fitness goals. Therapy has been instrumental in helping me develop secure attachment skills. My love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation.

I’m also exploring my gender identity and sexuality. I embrace gender fluidity (Primarily masc presenting) and identify as bisexual with a strong preference for femme-presenting people. The term "Finsexual" resonates with me if you're looking for something specific.

Who I’m Seeking

I’m looking for a confident, caring, and emotionally mature woman who enjoys being in control—someone who takes pleasure in leading inside and outside the bedroom. While shared interests are a bonus, emotional and intellectual connection matter most.

I want a Domme who enjoys having a devoted, eager-to-please submissive. Whether our dynamic is just between us or expands to include others is something I’d love to explore together.

NSFW Details

I’m seeking a Gentle Femdom (GFD) or Mommy Dom dynamic that could extend beyond the bedroom if it suits us. If you enjoy having a Submissive who you can rely on, guide, and shape to your desires, I’d love to hear about what excites you!

Kinks & Interests:

• Acts of service & submission
  
• Praise, teasing, orgasm control & chastity
  
• Discipline & structure (tasks, rituals, check-ins)
  
• Light impact play, & playful humiliation
• Pegging & HFO Training.
  
• Feminization & exploring gender expression
  
• Potential for cuckolding or being shared with others (under the right circumstances)
  

Limits:

• Extreme pain/CBT
  
• Extreme public humiliation
  
• Asphyxiation or blood play
  
• Race play, scat, or watersports
  
• Financial domination
  

Final Thoughts

If anything here resonates with you, I’d love to chat and see if we connect. I’m open to discussing what you’re looking for and how we might align. Thanks for reading, and I look forward to hearing from you!