Hello everyone!

About me:

32, bearded and tattooed, dad-bod sporting, elder-emo, nerd here. Before we get into the fun stuff, I'd like to share what I enjoy day-to-day. Generally, to pass the time or unwind after a long day, I'll play a video game (I prefer single player, story-driven games or online shooters), binge a good TV show or watch a movie, or read. Outside of that, I also enjoy things like night drives, exploring new places (towns, abandoned buildings, etc), cooking, and learning about things like space & physics, mythology and theology, psychology, true crime, history, all things spooky, and conspiracy theories (I don't subscribe to most but I find them super interesting). I'm also a big music person, so I almost always have something playing or a headphone in my ear.

What I'm looking for:

I know the world seems to be on an "instant gratification" kick, with everyone wanting a quick fix or a quick high, but that's just not for me. I'd much rather find a partner first, a best-friend, a confidant that I can be myself with. I need a connection, emotions, trust and understanding, somewhere we can feel safe to be ourselves without fear of judgement, ever. Trust takes time, and I'd much rather take the time to build it, than rush into any sort of dynamic or relationship.

Kinks:

On the other side of things, I'm a service sub, masochist, and love to worship. I'm big on being controlled, need/craving for each other, and am into more "taboo" than I'm not. It's easier just to list my kinks so:

• D/s / MD/lb
• Humiliation and Degradation
• Free Use / CNC / TPE
• Ass Play / Worship / Anal / Pegging
• Body worship
• Need / Obsession
• Choking / slapping / Impact Play
• Pet Play
• Slave Play
• Control (clothing, bathroom, orgasm, willing to work up to more or complete, with trust and time)
• Orgasm Control (denial/edging/overstimulation, forced orgasms)
• Scent Play / Scent Worship
• Watersports
• AFTERCARE
• Much more (happy to share in DMs/chat).

About you:

I don't have a preference on looks (although I have a soft spot for alt girls) or age (just be legal), as I tend to feel attraction more based off of personality. That being said, I'd prefer we have at least one interest in common, a starting point or common-ground we can connect on and let that grow/branch into sharing other interests. I love to learn, and hear about what you're passionate about so don't hesitate to tell me all about your latest obsession. I tend to gravitate more towards gentle Dommes/Mommies, but I love when you can get mean, rough, and degrading.

If you connect with anything in this message, feel free to reach out. Send me a chat, and include your name, age, and your favorite movie this month.
** I know attraction is important, so, I'm willing to send a SFW face pic early on if you want/need **
** I'm not looking for a Findomme, to subscribe to an OF just to talk, or pay to play, or be one-of-many subs. No judgement if that's your thing, but it's not for me **

Look forward to talking to you, ma'am (: