hiii readers <3

here again, throwing out the hook to see who bites. im pretty open to all kinds of people. but what makes all the difference for me about a boy is when they love women. and not just sexually but actually love us. love us so much they don’t even care about being corny about how much they love a girl. I’m pretty big on going where I’m valued and unfortunately there is so much misogyny right now. it’s so refreshing and makes me feel the most safe to be around boys who actually and truly love women. btw idc if you’re bi or whatever in between either it’s about how you value us romantically and as people not just sexually.

soooo meeee, im not new to Reddit though I’ve only ever met someone on here once and it was under a little less spicy context. I think I’m most hopeful that a sweet boy will be here rather than a dating app or something because it seems people are more comfortable being open here on Reddit. when I post I do usually get flooded and it tends to be a lot of graphic stuff immediately (I get it and it doesn’t upset me or anything, I just ignore them because I know my special boy is out there , emphasis on special, and I know how he would talk to me). but it doeees kind of make a girl think maybe I’ll never meet him :( but I’ve seen some beautiful happy endings bud here, so who knowsss.

I don’t share pictures immediately because of safety and never on Reddit (besides what I post publicly). I know attraction means something so I can describe in detail in our personal messages but I’ll outline somethings that have seemed to matter to people (5’2, black, body shape is kind of on my profile I don’t really know how to describe it though but you can ask anything specific). I have soooo many interests I want to explore with the right person but I’ve done pretty much none of it irl so I do have to go at a reasonable pace and would like a partner that feels the same. I also have a sort of hierarchy of intimacy that I would be probably be most comfortable with. I’m happy to talk about them bc I know it can make someone feel unwanted but also I can always live in the moment mire freely the more comfortable I feel with a person.

I hit my penjamin before writing this so sorrry for the ramble ☺️ but yaaaa send me a message if this sounds like you