IRL only. Please be within max 8 hrs driving distance or 2 hour flight and willing to meet within 30 days.

Quick facts about me 5’3 145lbs Foundational Black American Earth-based spiritualist (you don’t have to be, but you can’t intefer either. There will be crystals…everywhere) College-educated Semi-retired business owner Moderate politics. Socialist heart, republican wallet. Too liberal or MAGA and we probably won’t be a good fit

Damn near anything can turn into an adventure with me for better or for worse.

My leadership style: gentle, nurturing, compassionate, encouraging, feminine. Saying “please” is just good manners. Phrasing a demand as “would you mind” instead of “do this now” is simply more realistic on a day to day basis.

I am looking for a monogamous life partner. Please focus on my words one at a time as you reread…life partner.

This means I will not be giving you tasks, lists, calling you good boy or demanding that you call me Mommy, Goddess, Mistress, etc. after a few text exchanges.

My vision is to build a foundation first and then layer on kink. If you are unable to follow basic suggestions as to which app to communicate on or sending a SFW pic then kink is useless. You should first consider me as your partner/girlfriend, etc before any other honorific.

Still here? ✨good job✨ My potential partner has the following qualities:

✅ has no kids or his kids are adults and do not live at home.

✅ 32-60

✅ conventionally good looking

✅ relatively healthy

✅is financially stable. I can take care of myself, but I expect you to take care of us. Working for me is optional.

✅has honor and integrity

✅emotionally self aware

✅finds pleasure in serving and is self motivated

✅wears a suit with ease and can hang drywall

✅willing to mildly suffer during corrective actions physically or mentally

Things that bring me no pleasure: Whipping/caning, diapers, sissyfication, dishonesty, you needing constant guidance and handholding to complete a task, extreme pain, water sports, scat, lack of ambition, drunkenness, and extremes in general.

Balance is the key to life. Strolls at farmer’s markets, surprise picnics, lazy Saturdays in, all of the romantical and lovey-dovey stuff is paramount and comes before kink 🥰

My leadership style may not be for everyone, and that’s OK. To thine own self be true.

When you reply put your favorite meal in the first sentence and what you are most looking forward to this year.