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25 [M4F] Nerdy, Irish, Submissive Who's Probably More Clingy Than They Should Be #Online #Ireland
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IHateBeingGhosted is a male age 25 looking for a female in Ireland
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Hey, my name's Clark and I live in Ireland, I'm 25 years old and after taking a pretty extended break from this stuff decided to get back into it. I'm mostly looking for something online to begin with but with the potential to movie into irl at some point, where you are country-wise doesn't really matter, my sleep schedule is always so bad so time zones will probably line up no matter what :(, in the past I've had online stuff from the reddit places with people from Scotland, England, mainland Europe, Canada, the US.

 I'm just pretty fresh out of an irl relationship with someone I really liked and it stung a bit, I haven't been trying to find something on here since early 2022-ish.

 So a little about me:  I graduated college studying film, I work in post-production on film and really enjoy and have done a bit of professional work screenwriting for short films/ tv pilots as well as in video editing. I'm extremely nerdy, I absolutely love TV shows and have seen 100 times more than any normal person probably should, but this means I can give great recommendations! Give me a genre or type that you're really into and I'm sure I know a TV show that would be up your alley. I also watch a lot of movies, I love going to the cinema, I love video games, I love comics and superheroes, I'm kind of an encyclopaedia when it comes to DC especially lol.

 Looks wise, if we get to know eachother I'm 100% okay sharing pics but I'd rather not just attach them to a public post like this that anyone can see, I hope that's understandable. But I'm white, very pale cos it's Ireland lol, very skinny, dark brown eyes, dark brown hair, about 5ft 11, I've a little bit of a beard atm but I always end up shaving it before too long, everyone I know says that without the beard I look so young which is why I grow it out every so often. Tbh I grew the beard because I always get the compliment that I'm cute or I have a cute face because of how young I look without it. I mostly spend my days watching things or sitting working on computers or with cameras but I'm definitely not unfit, I hike a bit, I'm decently active, I have a bit of a runners physique but I don't do a lot of running.

 I'm a little out of practice with this stuff because it's been almost 3 years since I was last really active on here, but my prior online dynamics were all with women and all of them were dominant, some were Mommy Dommes, some were more strict, some were more gentle, I had a few dynamics that only lasted a couple weeks as we learnt we weren't a good fit but the main ones were much longer and with people I actually really cared about, two of them were much older women, one from the West Coast US and one from London, one of them was a girl the same age as me from Canada, in all of these three relationships it wasn't a strict/ harsh style dynamic, much more like a gentle femdom/ mommy dom style approach.

 I am clingy tbh, I get very attached to people I like and it's been my downfall a couple of times where I end up liking someone much more than they like me and then I get dropped and spend like a month getting over them, but I can get attached to you easily, so I hope you don't break my heart :(

 Complete transparency is that I'm likely going to post this exact personal on multiple subreddits with not much changes between each, so if this post is being read on a subreddit that isn't explicitly femdom I'm going to mention that while I thought of myself as straight for most of my life, I have started to lean towards bi-curious in recent years and am open to trying one of these dynamics with a male, in that situation I do think I would lean more towards the dom being more harsh/ strict with me as something I'm interested in.

 So I am open to any gender, age wise I also don't really have a preference, I don't care how much older than me you are, if you're younger I'd more prefer to be closer to my age than as young as 18 - 19 but if we click I don't mind as much.

 So lets talk kinks:

 What am I into? A lot, it's honestly easier for you to ask me am I into something than for me to list absolutely everything I'm into, but I'll list some main ones, and I should also point out that you don't have to be into all of these or even any of these, it just makes things a little more fun:

• Control (I love to know that I belong to someone and that they control me/ own me)

• Orgasm Control/ Forced Orgasm/ Edging/ Denial

• Anal play/ Toys (I'm still learning my way through this)

• Cum play (This is a new one as well but I find it really hot.)

• Roleplay

• Bondage

• Degradation/ Being mean to me (I like this when it's not serious or extreme, like moreso when it's meant to be fun and light)

• Hypnosis/ Mind Control/ Brainwashing (I find this SO hot, one of my first kinks)

• Smoking/ Vaping (I don't smoke but I find it really hot and attractive, I understand that this probably sounds weird to a lot of people, this was just one of those kinks that I started to really like as I was learning more about myself, I started vaping a little during play because it helped turn me on a bit, but I don't do it often at all.

 This next one I know can sound like a dealbreaker/ red flag for people, I started dipping my toe into it years ago because of one of my dommes and found I enjoyed it, but I haven't really touched this stuff at all since I was last active on here:

-  Sissification/ Feminization/ Forced Bi/ Being the Girl

 Tbh I am open to trying most things at least once unless it's a hard no, so if you're kink isn't listed then just ask, but things that are a hard no to me are:

  • Scat/ Pee/ Poop
  • Blood/ Serious Pain
  • Diaper Play/ Age Play if one of the people are underage

 If any part of my post interested you then I'd love to hear from you, if not then I hope you find what you're looking for and have a great night ❤️

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