Did you spend it with your family or friends? Did you have a real Christmas tree?
Maybe you don't celebrate Christmas itself but just enjoy eating and exchanging gifts.
I had spent yesterday with a select few family members. Had some food. Told some stories. Had some good laughs. Sadly, today, is my Monday at work. So I'm here, alone, writing this ad!
I'm 34, white, a little chubby. Handsome. Short beard.
I work in a medical type setting at night. When I'm not working I enjoy playing videogames and watching Movies and stuff. I have a few friends but I'm a quiet type of person and like to just chill most days. I am totally up for adventure though, I think a big part of that is not having a companion to help dictate my days. Part of why I'm posting here 😉
So. I've been interested in FemDom for a while. There are a lot of things I like about it, from the deep internal connections, to of course lots of kinky flirty fun and everything in between. - I'm currently reading my way through "The New Bottoming Book" and it's been nice to feel like I'm not alone. Or ashamed.
The days turned into weeks, and before I knew it I was 34. I've been single for a couple of years. An abrupt breakup left me in a rough spot but I'm able to say things are better. I have talked to a few people on reddit over the time and I really think my person is out there somewhere!
For clarification here, I am interested and looking for a long term or lifetime relationship. Not a short term hookup. Not a kink dispenser. Not a findom. Not a Dominatrix.
I am interested in finding someone who is aware, and turned on my femdom and male submission. It is important to me that in my relationship there are clear boundaries and rules to live by.
I do not have a "perfect life" in mind, and frankly I am very easy to slip into a submissive state it's almost frightening lol. So. It IS important that there is a level of adultness to it. I don't want to get my feelings hurt anymore than you do. I want to be devoted, loved, nurtured, protected. I want all of the good things. I think I deserve them.
As a whole, I am someone who is a quick thinker. I suppose I talk fast. I am observant and often to the point. I speak my mind, and I am an open book with any of my past. (Childhood abuse, etc)
In other words, it's so. So. So important to me that you can recognize and respond to certain things. I'm not saying I need a therapist. I don't. But I would really like to find my person who understands when I am having a bad day. That is important to me. For a long time I tried to cover up my desires and needs. I am done doing that and I recognize who I am. I am a non switching submissive who is a very good boy. Maybe needs a little training though.
I see a lot of talk on reddit about submissives who just use this as a way to get off and I don't approve of that.
To some, maybe most- the act of cleaning, doing the dishes, making food may just be mundane chores. But to me, and others like me, there is a sense of accomplishment for it. To feel like I've brought value. It is in a sense how I show affection outside of physical touch. This has led me to believe I am a "service submissive". I enjoy household tasks. Chores. I enjoy running errands and doing the things that make your life easier.
I would like to explore more with chastity devices, training, and orgasm denial. I would like to explore and experience for myself how it feels and all of the wonderful emotions that come with that. If you are interested.
Overall, I am a sweet boy. I will keep you company. I will be reliable and always friendly. I will surprise you with random things, facts, or jokes. I will even draw and color pictures for you. I am wanting to be fully dedicated to you!
Send me a message! Tell me about your Holiday shenanigans and upsets. Tell me about funny stories and mini games!
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