Intro

Hello, I have been interested in femdom for a while, subconciously most of my life i think. I am a first time submissive looking for an emotional and spiritual connection. Let me start by telling you a bit about myself. I am a 23 year old software developer. I am usually quite stoic and emit strong silent type vibes when im out in public, this combined with how tall I am can often make people find me intimidating, cold and unfeeling. Though the truth is i am just shy and underneath my exterior I am an emotionally sensitive soft boy who feels a profound amount of love, empathy and compassion for his fellow man. This has made it difficult for me to find genuine connections and has made me incredibly lonely. I am writing here in an effort to change that.

Looking for

I am not just looking for a casual play partner, I want a relationship, to find my other half and the love of my life. It is important to me that our relationship is bult on a strong foundation of communication and trust. We would both be supportive, encouraging as well as emotionally available and vulnerable towards one another. I want to be able to cry in your arms and for you to be comfortable crying to me and let me be your emotional support puppy while I comfort you by cuddling up to you and hugging you tight or resting my head on your lap. I dont want to submit to an idealised caricature of a godess with no flaws or problems. I want to accept and worship the whole of you as a person including all your imperfections. To be in touch with your emotions and being able to rely and confide in loved ones is to me a sign of strength and would only make me admire you more. I put a high amount of value in deep and silly conversations and spending quality time together to foster a deep emotional bond. This would start out as long distance but with the goal to moving towards IRL in time.

About me

Physically i am caucasian, 187cm/6'2, avarage build with brown eyes and dirty blond hair. I understand that attraction is an important factor so we can exchange face pictures early on in dms. Like i said in the intro, personality wise i have a thick stoic outer shell but am a giant softie on the inside. I am pretty introverted and I enjoy to stay In and cook or bake somthing nice to eat, play pc games, I like to play cooperative, artistic, relaxing and story driven games the most. Im also quite fond of watching animation and fantasy series. I also have an interest self improvement, nutrition and health, I go to the gym 3-4 times a week and have lost a lot of weight in the past year. I love animals, I have little kitty who I love more than life itself. Though my landlord doesnt allow pets so he is staying with family and i dont get to see him that often anymore😿. I would like to travel more, I love cultural visits as well as big ass waterparks and theme parks.

Kinks

I mainly feel a calling towards being a service submissive, holistically serving my lady and completing tasks. Im also quite fond of petplay, affectionate sadism, ERP and TPE. Though I am still quite new so I am always open to exploring new kinks and dynamics. Im also interessted in exploring the non-sexual sides of BDSM like domestic servitude, disciplining and cuddling.
My limits as of now are findom and polygamy, that includes 3 ways, open relationships and similar. I am completely monogamous and want a relationship where we are completely devoted to each other. Though I don't mind forming friendships with others in the community, engaging in sexual play with them is off the table for me.

About you

You are around my age (3-ish year margin) but if you think we would be really compatible, feel free to msg me if you are a bit older. Comfortable verifying with face pics. We should ideally have at least some interests in common. Due to travel laws and restrictions I am mainly looking for a partner within Europe or North America. I am politically left leaning and im a strong proponent of intersectional justice and would prefer if my partner shared these values as well.

Thank you for reading my personal, feel free to send me a dm if what i have written resonates with you. Tell me what your favorite series is or something else that is interesting about yourself to break the ice.
Happy holidays!