Hey there, I am writing here to hopefully meet my (eventually) IRL person! Just a normal dude shooting his shot over here in the oddest of places. 😆 I will talk about kinky stuff a bit further down in the post but first, the important and meaningful stuff.

I have known deep down that I was a sub for quite a while, all the way back when I was 19 with my first girlfriend. Obviously since then I have had vanilla relationships some working out better than others, but after some soul searching and realizing this is what I honestly want, here I am.

I am looking for a real monogamous long term FLR relationship hopefully leading to marriage or at least living together long term. I am a very hardworking, kind and sweet guy. I am college educated and have a stable career. I am in good financial standing with no real debt, criminal record, or children.

I am very faithful, sweet, and have decent looks. I'm 5'8 and white with an average build. I am not really a macho guy at all but I am masculine.

I live in central North Carolina but am open to living most places and visiting you if things worked out. I enjoy a variety of different things. I love video games/PC gaming, the outdoors, hiking, road trips, traveling, listening to music, being creative, reading, long drives, watching movies or shows, and listening to podcasts. If you play certain games, I will gladly play them with you! I'm also open to trying new hobbies with my partner.

I am honestly a bit exhausted in this dating game, endless swiping on faces in apps, or meeting at questionable bars, and I am ready to meet someone I intend to be with for a long time. I really do care more about the substance of you as a person than how you look, although attraction is obviously a bit of a factor. I want to be truly excited by someone again. I want someone I can rely on. I want to be incredibly loyal, clingy and faithful to someone, take care of each other when we're sick even, and be by your side all the time whenever I can be and help you through life as best I can.

The best way to start with me is to get to know me in a normal vanilla way. We could talk on here for a while then move to something else over time, and maybe call eventually, or play a game or something, and see if our personalities mesh well. I am an INTJ if that helps.

I am not looking for a mean/strict partner. A bit of sadism is fine and kind of hot honestly, but that comes over time and with trust, as sometimes I enjoy being bullied in a playful way. But hopefully I can find someone sweet who will help guide me, gain my trust as I can gain hers, encourage me, appreciate my kindness and soft nature, snuggles, faithfulness, and let me and in turn I take care of her in every way I can with true dedication. I am a bit soft when compared to a lot of guys and tend to wear my heart on my sleeve and it has hurt me in in the past.

The kinky stuff below:

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My dream is to submit and surrender to someone I truly trust. My partner is my world and my dream is to be able to give myself fully to my person as a gift to them, and to promise to always prioritize them. I just want to have a deep & loving relationship with someone. I'm very kinky, submissive and down for most things. I enjoy soft and gentle sex but I'm also okay with being choked and being roughed up pretty badly/humiliated at times as well. You can take all your life stress out on me honestly. I am interested in trying pegging/BDSM/other things with the right person whom I can trust but I am not looking into jump into anything sexual right away.

Communication is key. I also like being marked, bullied, pushed around once I trust you. I am basically looking for someone who is very sweet, nurturing and maternal but maybe with a dark sadistic side as well who enjoys turning me into a blushy sweet mess. I love cuddling too. You can sit on my face and have me eat you out for hours, or be rough with me and shove me around, mess with my brain and tell me I don't need to think. whatever you wanna do for the most part once we get to that point, but it will take a while to get there and trust you to that level.

Dealbreakers/No Go stuff

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Body waste/blood/barf.

Non monogamy / forced bi or introducing a 3rd.

Permanent damage.

Cheating / ignoring each other's needs.

I only want a monogamous real relationship.

If any of this resonates with you, reach out and we can start by getting to know each other in a normal way, maybe voice chatting/text chatting. Thanks for reading this long post.🫶