Hoping to find a younger or same age (18-26) submissive partner with the same hobbies and can cater to my kinks in a long term femdom relationship. I grew up doing martial arts and self-discipline turns me on the most, hence I am not into men with switch or bratty personalities. I expect my partner to have a healthy lifestyle and keeps himself physically fit/toned and hygienic.

I am into free use, orgasm control, face sitting, and bondage, and being a mommy to a good boy. My big kinks include public play and exhibitionism, so someone who loves to be risky and show off anytime and anywhere is the perfect match for me. I like having a sub who is very open minded, heteroflexible, and willing to explore kinks and his sexuality in general.

I am not a big fan of anal play but I wouldn't mind the occasional pegging if I'm in the mood for it. I am not looking for a femboy, but a masculine partner who has good control over his every day life, takes good care of his hygiene and fitness, has long term goals, and is well respected by his peers. Him being submissive is only a side he must display around and towards me as his partner. My ideal relationship is a black cat/golden retriever type.

I like a little micromanagement here and there such as deciding what he'll wear on certain days, making sure he keeps his place tidy, shaving regularly, orgasming only when I tell him so, and many more.

A little about me: I work in the finance industry, physically fit and looking to get into calisthenics, a massive introvert and someone who is not into the hook up culture. I love anime and playing videogames on PC and PS5 (mainly single player and PVE). I value building connection and getting to know each other before establishing a relationship.

Body preference: fit and muscly, abs, clean shaven, short hair.

Feel free to send me a message providing your ASL and a picture along with how you think we match. Please include a proper introduction and not just a short hello. Thank you in advance and good luck to everyone.