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28 [M4F] #New York City #Online- Anyone interested in an emotional mentoring dynamic, would also appreciate in person if possible
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xtpdvn7 is a male age 28 looking for a female in New York City
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Me: 5'10 white. Great Bmi. brown hair. Masculine. Well behaved. Doesn't like to hurt people's feelings. Cheerful goofy jokester that knows when to read the room. Wants to make sure you're happy. Honestly I can never figure out the right way to describe myself without being tmi. Interest: A lot of nerd stuff but not going to push it on you if it's not what you like. Let's find a hobby we can enjoy together. I am a service sub but also willing to switch for you if required only because I want to make you happy in any way I possibly can.

I am a big people pleaser. I know how to show my appreciation for you after I've gotten to know you but I prefer to keep things toned down since I don't like making you uncomfortable, let me know if you actually want me to be that annoying, that setting is off by default. While I have limits I am willing to indulge stuff that might seem out there if you ask, but it honestly just depends on what it is. I am open to this just being an emotional dynamic, physical would be great too, but I am very much in need for the emotional comfort more than everything else lately. When it comes to how I'm progressing personally in life, I feel that I've reached a bottleneck in the last few years in terms of growth. I know ultimately I have to be the one who makes those changes on my own since it wouldn't be reasonable to expect someone to do everything for me. However while that is still the case, I still feel anxious and a bit disorganized and lacking in direction, I wouldn't be expecting help 24/7 or forever but if someone were to help get that ball rolling and get it to consistently stick for a while till I'm good on my own I might have to give them my soul 👉👈as a thank you

What would I like from you? - 22-32. I'm open minded to any type of personality as long as you love to talk a lot and possibly hang out and vibe. Some of my preferences would be someone that feels oppressively sweet, by that I mean they'd be so kind that it would scare me to make them mad. Not that I would ever want to make you mad in any way though I might end up doing it by accident somehow cause I can be pretty silly sometimes. Someone who is a bit nerdy and geeky. I'm not one to escalate things or push someones boundaries. I want to be a better potential partner and the enthusiasm is there, just not so much the experience. Be non-judgemental of what I'm going through but willing to give positive feedback. Please be understanding that I struggle with social anxiety and want to connect with you as naturally as I can so it may take me a bit of time to open up right away.

Some other things to note: I would consider this a relationship if that is what you want from this, although if you want this to be a casual dynamic where we are also big friends I am open to that as well. Ideally I wouldn't mind finding my wife on here but that is a big reach. I would be willing to move to you if this got serious or vice versa if you prefer.

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